What advice do you have for 1st time gay anal sex?

My boyfriend and I are both virgins and want to have anal sex, but we kind of tried a few weeks ago but it was too painful and didn't really work. We really want to have anal sex, but I guess we need detailed instructions of what to do, how to do, what positions, what lubricants, ect.,ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that would help us succeed in this act.


Thanks!What advice do you have for 1st time gay anal sex?
...Did... you really ask that publicly o.o? Good to you i guess. I'll just be listening though LolWhat advice do you have for 1st time gay anal sex?
1- u should both be comfortable


2- u should be horny .


3- u should put lotion or cream on your hole or his hole ...


4- take it slow and be relaxed as much as possible or its gonna be painful like hell


5- the first positin is to rise your legs up and let him do his job , but hey i would recommend u keep kissing untill he enter all his d*** in you .


thats all
start with fingering and foreplay, no one, gay or straight, should just jump right into intercourse without rounding the bases a little first





as for positions, try catcher flat on his stomach with pillow under his waist, or pitcher lying on his back with catcher sort of sitting down on his waist





EDIT: almost forgot, no drugs or alchohol and remember that the catcher should sort of ';push down'; to let the pitcher in a little, then you have to be patient, because the second sphincter is involuntary and will let you in when it relaxes
I prefer the doggy style position personally.





Also, lots and LOTS of lube.





Go slow. When it starts to feel painful is when you should kinda stop and let the sphincter muscle relax and then proceed. After that it starts feeling pretty good, if I do say so myself.
whoever is recieving, drink some margaritas first. then the person who is giving. stand about 10 feet away while the person who is recieving sits with their butt in the air on the bed. then the person giving run as fast as you can and put it in their bumbum. that help at all?
My advice: Don't do it.





If you ';kind of tried'; then you're not virgins anymore.
Well, I had a bad first experience. I was actually bruised.





Since then (especially with my current bf, together 7 months %26lt;3) I've had much better luck.





Now, I'm the catcher persay.





We usually do some foreplay, start kissing, etc. At one point, I'll take off his pants, he'll take off mine, etc.





Then I'll grab some closeby lube and do something he enjoys and turns him on - I'll cover my hands with it and rub it all over his penis. I do that for ahwhile to make sure he is properly coated.





Now, I use a few different positions, I'll list them here.





We occasionally do the standard lift the legs up in front of each other, but not often. Sometimes I'll get on my hands and knees on the bed and he'll go after it. Occasionally, off the bed, I'll basically touch the ground (I'm extremely flexible :D) and he'll do that. Sometimes I put my front to a wall (have to put my foot up on something or else my leg cramps up D:) and he'll go from behind me, kissing my neck.





Last but not least, there's the normal doggy style: I lay on my stomach, he sticks it in, and basically just rides me.





If you start to hurt, stop. And make sure he does hit you with his thing occasionally so you feel it.
Use lube for sure! I think that will work.





Good Luck!!!
don't use lube. It's better that way
The butt wasn't meant to have something shoved up in it so of course it's going to hurt. Just deal with it or don't do it.