Thursday, December 31, 2009

Problems with a friend could you please give advice?

I have a friend whos pregnant, who is feling down and demanding my attention as shes on her own, I went shooping with my mother today and caused world war 3 and we fell out as she says i never spend time with her and i'm selfish etc. Am I in the wrong? What should I do?Problems with a friend could you please give advice?
Your not wrong or selfish, but you have to understand. She's pregnant, emotional, and just needs someone to be around, especially since she's alone. You just have to let her know you'll there for her, but you have your own life. It may be annoying, but she's your friend. So you guys should like plan a day each week or every two weeks to just spend together ( Ex. just talking about life, having a lunch, picking out baby names).Problems with a friend could you please give advice?
I think she is being selfish and self centered. Not acting like a really good friend either. I'd tell her how you feel if I were you. And tell her she may be loosing a good friend and will be if she doesn't stop her unacceptable behavior. I don't think you are in the wrong at all, she is.
she is being self-ish and self-centered.


Tell her that at times you are busy and your sorry if your not there.


Tell her that sometimes u need summ time for yourself 2


and tell her you love and care 4 her and you'll b there 4 her whenever you can








Good Luck!!





xoxox
say 'i cant always be with you.'
Her hormones are just acting up. but you have to do something.





You have to tell her the truth. She's using you in place where the father would be. Tell her you are a good friend to her but You have to tell her if she continues to do this you won't be over that often. If it happens again set ground rules. If it happens after that you have to let go until the eighth month if she will let you back in.





But sometimes a good heart to heart is all a pregnant girl needs. Good luck.
shes probably just feeling very alone and wants some one there to help,which is understandable...however you need to explain to her that you also have a life and need to get things done and you cant always be with her. shes asking to much. your only one person after all...she needs to know that.

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