Please help, i dont want them to be madHow would you tell your parents if im pregnant, advice and help appreciated?
Well I'm 16 and i'm pregnant and got pregnant once before by my boyfriend, but i lost my first. Since my boyfriend is cool with my mom i told him to tell her. She was upset, my grandmother found out and it was the same reaction with her. Your parents are going to be upset because they didn't expect you out of all the girls in the area would be the one to be knocked up. They want you to do better than themselves, they almost always have high expectations for you. Its best to just tell it to them straight only if you plan on keeping it. If you plan on having an abortion just find a way to get your insurance and all that stuff and bring a close friend for support.How would you tell your parents if im pregnant, advice and help appreciated?
Explain the entire situation to them, what you're thinking of doing, and tell them how you now know to be more responsible. [If it's an unplanned pregnancy, that is]
';mom. dad. i'm stupid. i didn't use protection and had sex with a boy who will probably leave me in 3 weeks. i'm pregnant. i have failed as a teenager.';
say that. just as it is.
You should say that you can make choices and its not fair and things like that, but all in all, you will get in trouble eventually.
hey dad guess what i did *tells him* high five! woo good job son!
just do it
First, be sure if you are pregnant. That is when you tell them.
Tell your mom first, since she is a woman like you, and was pregnant at least once before. If she tells your dad, I'll be surprised.
go up to them and tell them that you made a huge mistake but that you'd really appreciate their support. just come right out and say it, because the longer you wait the harder it will be. good luck!
tell your mom first*...
moms are better about it...
but i just want you to know she may still be mad...
then after you talk to her, take her and go talk to your dad...
*the best way to tell her is be like,'; mom i made a huge mistake. and i'm pregnant.'; you are probably gonna cry and she'll feel bad and take it easier
I suggest that you sit them down and talk to them, and if they don't understand than request counseling. They will be quite upset, but you shouldn't think anything of it. My mother would be surprised if I told her that I'm pregnant. I'm not though. Good luck, hope I helped.
Well, maybe sitting them down and explaining everything would help. Tell them you appreciate everything they do for u every single day. Not to be rude but let them know it wasnt their fault but maybe it was just yours. I dont know if this was unplanned. i mean the ';doing'; part. This is your responsibility and you would appreciate it if they just went along with what your deciding to do. Good luck!!
Calmly tell them the truth, it beats lieing and holding it back. Trust me it'll only make things worse. Just tell them it was an accident and you never meant to. Parents don't stay mad at their kids forever
They are going to be disappointed, but whether or not they manifest that disappointment as anger remains to be seen. Just tell them. You need their help.
It may help disarm them if you wait for a good time and then say very humbly, ';Mom, dad. I've made a mistake and I need your help. I'm pregnant and I'm scared.';
Put that way it may help them reach the protective place in themselves about their baby girl that they will eventually come to in most cases.
They are going to be upset. It is only natural, but the longer you wait to tell them, the more upset they will be. It is important that you get taken care of, so they have to know. I had to tell my mom. I was 15. I just blurted it out. Our relationship was rocky for a bit, but it got better. What you are going through is hard, but it will be harder alone.
no matter how you say it.,.,... they will still be pissed
i just told my parents u were pregnant and they said they dont care cuz they dont know u.
They are going to be mad... Just tell them you need to have an important talk with them and tell it like it is... It's going to be tough, but I bet they'll stand by your side once the initial shock wears off. They're your parents who love you more than anything and they'll help you get through this
well why did you go and do that in the first place? you need to have them know that YOU realize your stupid mistake and that you would neevr think of doing it again. otherwise, why should they forgive. im not trying to be rude but from their perspective, why would they forgive you if u dont reassure them it's something you will never do again and regret and wouldn't have have done it if you could do it over.
oh, and please. i beg you. don't murder your baby.
you will just have to tell them asap, otherwise mother nature will let them know , its not the first time this has happened,you will survive,unless they kill you
No matter how you say it, they are going to be disappointed. Just try to be calm and mature and have a talk with them about it. Don't be nervous
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Just tell them. There is no way around this and the longer you wait, the harder it will be for you to tell them.
Oh, trust me, if you are under 18 they are going to get mad no matter how you tell them. Just sit them down and tell them. Be totally honest and expect for them to be upset and mad for at least a week. They will probably come around after thinking about it for awhile.
They are going to react the same, no matter how you tell them. The earlier you tell them, the better it is.
Just flat out tell them, and depending on your age, add in ';I know I made a mistake, but now I'm taking responsibility for it.';
It'll take them time to get used to it, so don't think that just because they are made for 2 or 3 days after you tell them, that they won't be supportive in the long run.
Why should I tell my parents if you're pregnant?
If you're pregnant then you have bigger problems than your parents not taking the news well. Just tell them as soon as possible so they and you can deal with it.
I would tell them in a public place, like McDonald's, so there wont be obsessive yelling or even hitting. I would also tell them that you have a plan to work out the situation, then explain the plan. If you don't have a plan to deal with pregnancy in the first place, then your screwed already.
I think just sit down and tell them you need help and advice because you've done something you maybe shouldn't have
um not sure if your a guy or girl, just tell them like say..
(girl) Dad, im sorta well Pregnant! OMG im so sorry! (start criing)
Boy) um dad i sorta had it with this girl... (dads comes up to you) ';HELL YA!'; thants my boy';!!JK
HUGS
AMY
Start out with Mom And Dad Im going to mess up your life Yes It was worth the 7 minutes Who???
say mom dad, I held up a computer mouse on my stomach and it said I was pregnant. Yes I answered your other question, and dont go telling your parents your pregnant because you did an online pregnancy test
say youll commit suicide if they get mad LOL just plain out tell emm
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