Do you feel your advice given to others ?

I couldn't believe the advice given to my husband. After reading the advice given I relized just how many people are clueless and their advice should be kept to theirselves. I can only hope that others who may real need ';help'; get it from a professional or seek out a close friend who knows both sides and understands the situation better. I'm not saying all of answers where completely off, but before calling anyone a ';whore'; or even ';slapping'; another,best you know more about what and who you are talking about. Thank youDo you feel your advice given to others ?
On here? Sometimes no. So many hopeless souls on here.Do you feel your advice given to others ?
One of the reasons I hang out in Yanswers is to fight the nonsense. If I can save one life, help one person, then all the effort is worth it.





Let us all hope that reason and sanity prevails over superstition and fashion.
Dr. Betty is here....and as Frazer would say, I'm listening.





Don't you think you should be telling your unhappy husband that he should see a professional, instead of getting angry with the people who, he asked for help and they answered his question with only the information he chose to give them? I bet you set him straight, didn't you!
Always remember that on here, there are so many people here for so many reasons. many of us are ready to share our knowledge or experiences in a sincere way. But still many others are here for gags, or because their own lives are pathetic and empty. All you can do is read the answers carefully, and brush off the ones that are offensive. If you need a real answer for a problem - then you don't need the added stress of trying to figure out people who defy all sense of reason.
It always amazes me the things people put out here to strangers. And yes the readers only get to see one side.
i try sometimes to give good advice and i joke alot, but when u read some of the questions on here u wonder who is asking them, or in my case how old they are, which yahoo thinks i did not follow there guidelines so they sent me a note, no matter what advice u give i dont think they take it to heart
YOU need to understand a few things. First and foremost, this is a place where people ASK QUESTIONS. Sometimes they only want back up, sometimes they really want opinions or shared experiences, and sometimes they just need to talk. Second - - it is IMPOSSIBLE to relate ';more about what and who';, and IMPOSSIBLE to hear ';both sides';, when it comes from one person . Third - - NOBODY IS EXPECTED TO BE AN EXPERT, EVERYONE has an opinion (JUST like YOU), and when people ASK for ';advice'; here, by golly they are going to GET advice. Hopefully, the person who asked the question has the sense to know that maybe 1 out of 20 answers will actually have RATIONAL intelligent advice.





What, may I ask, were you or your husband expecting by coming here in the first place - Dr. Phil?
First of all what is your question? Second, a person can only answer to what specifics were given so if someone was called a whore, they only hear the persons side who asked the question and that's all they go by. Sorry you didn't approve of whoever's answers, but it's not our job to know what we are talking about. It's our job to answer questions based on the info given.





BTW, I didn't answer your husbands question, but I'm responding to your statement since it's not a question
Advise on here is only to try and help someone else. The person can choose to take or leave the advise. The name calling is not necessary as you mentioned. As far as getting both sides of the story, that's not going to happen! People out here on YA can only respond to what is written. It's not meant to be professional help, only a sounding board. There are always smart-alek or joking answers!





Pay close attention to what your husband wrote about you, that is what people saw. If your husband is Breeze, you have to admit it wasn't a pretty picture. I am sorry you felt hurt, whether or not it was that question. You need to sit down and talk to your husband and perhaps obtain that professional help that you referred to.
Did you cheat on your husband? If you did 'nuff said
I understand what you mean but you need to understand also that this is consider as public site to give advice and opinion on what is given to them and that is the reason it is called 'community site'.


Don't let these get into you..advice is just an advice and doesn't mean have to follow by anyone who ask for it and same thing with opinion..it is only but an opinion and if unpleasant or abusive words spoken then you have the right to report that to the Yahoo!Answer associates or staff.
wow....


if you want professional help then I guess YOU aught to go and PAY for it.


we do our best to provide answers based on opinions and the info provided.


yes there are smart @$$ answers, but there are stupid questions as well.


I have been a marriage counselor for more then the past 10 yrs and I have 2 PhD's. I try to answer based on info. But we understand that its sometimes one sided.That's what you get for free
The better answers sometimes get negative thumbs down because some people on here are cruel like that. Some get jealous because no one shares their views.





Me personally I think you should see help from not just one person but more than 2. Even seek a neutral friend or something on the matter ans have a heart to heart good luck
What happened to the rest of the question? Do I feel what???
Your husband posted the question from HIS point of view.





I'll bet if you tell your side and post the exact same question, people will tell you to castrate him.






i think people think that they are cute... I ask questions on here all the time and about 85% of the time at least one person knows what they are talking about.. you also get the non psychoanalyzed answer from someone who might know what you're talking about because they've been there and can relate.. ignore the idiots who want attention and it should be fine.
The advise that I give to others is what I would do if I were in the situation explained. I don't know which question you are referring too.
As with anything else on here, we will only get one side, and have to base the answers on the information given. That is the nature of this forum.


A link to the question of your husband's would have been helpful.


If your husband posed his question in such a way that you were perceived to be a ';whore'; by some on here, then you need to ask yourself why. Is that how he perceives the situation? Was he looking for some justification for what he himself was feeling? Did he pose the question in such a way that put you into a bad light?


Perhaps what you need to do now is ask him why he would choose to do that, to pose the question in just that way.


I am sorry if you were hurt.
well ya u are right smoe people just dont think at all. and ya know most people dont look at both sides of the story. sorry u went through that.
I have no idea what your post is referring to, but if I post a question on Answers I know that I'm going to get mixed answers. The people answering the questions are only trying to help and others are trying to get a good laugh. We can only work with the information we're given with the original question.


If your husband slapped you and called you a whore, I think you should take it up with him instead of all of these strangers. It's unlikely that the people you intended this message for will ever even read it.


Good luck with things.



Now I would like to know what your husband was asking. We don't know who your husband is. Can you post a link to the question your husband asked.....it would be very helpful!
This is not pro therapy and besides many of us here have fun and opinions are just that opinions. Why can't he ask you questions? My husband and I look at yahoo questions together. Try doing it as a couple, you may have fun!