How can you help me or what advice can you give?

I can not stand being lonely. It's killing me like mad. I was lonely for 20 or so years of my life because I used to think I was the only person on the planet and then eventually I realized the world was full of people. I find it difficult to socialize because not many people can understand your personal situations. I need to be with those who can understand. I know that in time I may have people in my life but at the moment I have negative thoughts over it.How can you help me or what advice can you give?
This problem is often brought up. Its on the increase due the rise in the complex of society. To that end you can use it to your advantage. Why not look for groups that share your interest? At your local library perhaps a quick on the internet. Interest groups will allow you to be thrust into a situation in which everyone already has something in common. I understand that there may be few people whom can understand your personal situation but that doesn't have to be a barrier to socializing with people. If this doesn't pan out I'd suggest going a group therapy. Here you can sit down with a professional and with a group people whom share similar feelings towards social situations.How can you help me or what advice can you give?
just join the jim . choose the time when jim must be almost full.go regular and the people may talk to you like hi how are you etc etc. but answer them with a smiling face. the day will come when many people will start talking to you and you will have the chance to choose some of them who are really look good for you.within a month you will see that the life become enjoy full and very easily you will improve your health and controlling power to control the mind. this is the best way to improve your will power also. thanks.
be positive and try to find who understand you and youve got to start socializing if dont how are you suppose to find some one who understands you?