Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Relationship advice: how do you open up to somebody?.?

ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months everythings going good we dont really argue just have good times but how do i open up to him? how DO you open up period? i want him to be able to come to me when hes feeling down and needs someone to talk to and the same with me but whenever i try to take it to the next level in our communication i get stuck. any advice? thank you!Relationship advice: how do you open up to somebody?.?
The thing is that NOBODY will just open up if they do not feel like it.


If you try to ''push'' it, then it will be even worse !!!!!





U are with ur bf only for 4 months, it took almost whole year to me to open up to my bf...same goes for him.





Before that, we were just having fun, and enjoying ....


I will tell you something, in the begining, it is suposed to be sort of superficial...if you know what I mean.


I see that you really CARE about him, as you asked this question.


But dont worry, with time it will come natural ... he will feel that he wants to share more and more things with u.


And as you share good things, you even more share bad things....something that hurt u, somethin that makes u sad, things ur goin through, etc etc


As much as u will be honored to know his personal stuff, u will also have to DEAL with it, and know how to help.......coz opening up means - he expects u to help too........


It is amazing feeling to be conected to someone in that way.


But it is also a responsability...and you will start to feel how he feels...you will have to deal with double portion of emotions :)


Sssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssso, in the begining, even if ur not opening up, its a good for a start, enjoy, have fun, be inocent, childish, and just enjoy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





Going to next level is going to come natural ........ no stucking if its comin spontanious :)





GOOD LUCK ;)








cristina spainRelationship advice: how do you open up to somebody?.?
Try to lead the conversations that y'all are having into a more serious one. And you must be ready to face different reactions because people respond differently to different situations. Also, he may not be ready to open up to you as well. So to be honest putting yourself out there does involve risks, but be strong and know that if he's the one for you, he'll understand everything.
Sit down and talk to him ask question if you don't ask how will you know him as he know you in your communication it good always ask a question?! you know what i m saying...


Good luck...
give em ur number

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