How do you like when someone were to advice you or inhibit you like that?

How do you like when someone were to advice you or inhibit you in what you do?





What if you saw the latest car, eg, the BMW or the Volvo, and you like it so much and saved for it to buy it. However, after all your hard work, suddenly your family members discourage you to buy it but ask you to settle for a cheap saloon instead?





Perhaps what if you know of this very prestigious and popular school in the next town that you feel is good for your kid and you manage to secure a place for him. At the last minute, however, your family members such as your mom, dissuade you from sending him there, claiming it is too ';dangerous'; for a kid. They then suggested you send him to a remote school back in your hometown because it is good enough for him.





Or perhaps what if you met this girl that you really like in the city that is very successful in her life, but your family members feel she is too good for you and dissuade you from getting her. Instead, they introduce a simple girl in your small hometown, saying she is a good girl.





How do you feel when you just wanted to do something you really want, someone will step in and interfere in what you wanted and stall your plans?





Perhaps to add insult to injury, they will say you expect too much and you are a dreamer.How do you like when someone were to advice you or inhibit you like that?
If you're an adult and you have the means and opportunity to do these things, then they don't have a say in what you want to do. Go ahead and do it and never let anyone hinder you from your dreams.How do you like when someone were to advice you or inhibit you like that?
You're cousin should just go ahead and do what he/she wants to do even if the family keeps bugging him/her. They will come around or let it go eventually.

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Maybe they are trying to hold you back because they don't want you to have the life they never had. Parents are supposed to want better for their kids, than what they themselves had. Sadly,sometimes it's the opposite. maybe they never had a fancy car, successful girlfriends, fancy school, so they don't want you to have it either. It's resentment. Remember, it's your life. Only you have to live it.
Or possibly your family is afraid you will get ';above yourself'; (but really above THEM) and they will lose you. But if your dreams are realistic and you have a good chance of achieving them, go for it! You can keep showing your family that they haven't lost you, and they may wind up bragging about you.
If you're an adult, it's still your choice. They can advise all they want, but you still have the option to do what you want to do.
man..... you saved all summer for that XBOX %26amp; your mom told ya no again didn't she? it's pretty close to Christmas, maybe she already knows what Santa is bringing? hmmmmmmm
Well, my finely feathered little friend, I would think that you are p-whipped by your family, that you don't have enough backbone as a human to stand up against them, and that you probably deserve this treatment because you are also lazy and a bum for putting up with what the family thinks over what you want, or what you think is best.


Grow up, act like an adult. Tell the family they are butting into your business and to stick it! Or just continue to be the wimpy wuz that you are.