I am thinking about moving to Lynn in a year or so but am looking for reviews from people who live in the Central Square area, particularly in the Boston Machine Lofts. Is it nice to live there? Is it safe? Are people friendly? Any good restaurants/bars/places for young couples to hang out? Thanks for any advice.Do you have any advice about the Boston Machine Lofts in Lynn, MA? I am interested in hearing from you.?
isnt there a saying that says ';Lynn the city of sin';???...it must have some good parts but I always heard that Lynn was typically shady...
Friday, January 8, 2010
Can anyone advice on unfair dismissal cases then you can do yourself?
friend been dismissed for responding to bullying emails from a colleague but she has been dismissed while the bully gets to keep her jobCan anyone advice on unfair dismissal cases then you can do yourself?
The first step should always be to approach the supervisor or the person who wrote the dismissal letter. This may clarify the reasons that were not outlined in the letter. If the outcome is not satisfactory, your friend should look for a lawyer who specializes in employment law, and who would charge only if your friend gets some compensation. In any case, most lawyers offer a free (short) session before accepting the case.Can anyone advice on unfair dismissal cases then you can do yourself?
Your friend has the right to appeal the decision then if she still feels that the dismissal was unfair then she can take it further herself.
First she will need copies all of the evidence presented and used against her and a copy of the companies disciplinary and grievance procedure. In this policy/procedure it should list everything that the company will do to deal with issues within the workplace. Then look on the web pages for acas and if your friend is squeaky clean in all of this she should be able to take it further acas will assist and initially advise but not represent.
Your friend must educate herself on employment law to be able to do this but it is a long process and any money award she will hope to obtain in my opinion wouldn't be worth the effort.
There are employment advisors in the CAB that she can go and see but she wil need to do all of the work herself first and inform them of why according to the law she feels she has been unfairly dismissed.
Next job...join a union all of this may have been prevented.
49 of the 50 states are employment at will which means she can be fired for any reason at any time.
There are wrongful dismissal cases and people talk about them all the time. However, in ';real'; life they are not that common.
What your friend considers a bullying email, her boss may consider ';getting the job done';.
Has she worked there 5 years or more? If less, it will be very hard to prove wrongful dismissal
Has she had glowing performance reviews in the past? If not, that futher reduces her chance.
Has she had performance write ups?
Is she part of a protected class (besides female) - over 40, a minority, etc? If not, there would be no discrimination claim.
There is a free agency called ACAS that can advise her.
http://www.acas.org.uk/index.aspx?articl鈥?/a>
She should be able to find their phone number on the web site.
Get some advice from ACAS. She's wasting her time trying to fight this herself - anyone with knowledge of employment law will run rings round her.homemade mask
The first step should always be to approach the supervisor or the person who wrote the dismissal letter. This may clarify the reasons that were not outlined in the letter. If the outcome is not satisfactory, your friend should look for a lawyer who specializes in employment law, and who would charge only if your friend gets some compensation. In any case, most lawyers offer a free (short) session before accepting the case.Can anyone advice on unfair dismissal cases then you can do yourself?
Your friend has the right to appeal the decision then if she still feels that the dismissal was unfair then she can take it further herself.
First she will need copies all of the evidence presented and used against her and a copy of the companies disciplinary and grievance procedure. In this policy/procedure it should list everything that the company will do to deal with issues within the workplace. Then look on the web pages for acas and if your friend is squeaky clean in all of this she should be able to take it further acas will assist and initially advise but not represent.
Your friend must educate herself on employment law to be able to do this but it is a long process and any money award she will hope to obtain in my opinion wouldn't be worth the effort.
There are employment advisors in the CAB that she can go and see but she wil need to do all of the work herself first and inform them of why according to the law she feels she has been unfairly dismissed.
Next job...join a union all of this may have been prevented.
49 of the 50 states are employment at will which means she can be fired for any reason at any time.
There are wrongful dismissal cases and people talk about them all the time. However, in ';real'; life they are not that common.
What your friend considers a bullying email, her boss may consider ';getting the job done';.
Has she worked there 5 years or more? If less, it will be very hard to prove wrongful dismissal
Has she had glowing performance reviews in the past? If not, that futher reduces her chance.
Has she had performance write ups?
Is she part of a protected class (besides female) - over 40, a minority, etc? If not, there would be no discrimination claim.
There is a free agency called ACAS that can advise her.
http://www.acas.org.uk/index.aspx?articl鈥?/a>
She should be able to find their phone number on the web site.
Get some advice from ACAS. She's wasting her time trying to fight this herself - anyone with knowledge of employment law will run rings round her.
PARENTS: Do you have any advice to new/future parents?
I am five months pregnant with a baby boy and I was wondering if anyone had any advice or words of wisdom?
Thanks :)PARENTS: Do you have any advice to new/future parents?
First - CONGRATULATIONS! I think the best advise any one could give you is: be patient, sleep when your baby is sleeping, and lean on your family for support, especially if this is your first child.
Good Luck!PARENTS: Do you have any advice to new/future parents?
Love your baby with all your heart and put him before everyone else because you are his only mother, and if you don't give him that love, who will? Everything else is just stuff.
It helps to have lots of extended family nearby: cousins, uncles, aunts...
1 take pictures, take multiples, and distribute them, and back them up so you don't lose them ever.
2 sleep when he sleeps.some of my most treasured times with my son were when he was sleeping on my chest in the couch.
3 babies arent as fragile as they look. WHen my son was born i was afraid to dress him because I was worried I would break his arm putting it in sleeves. you won't.
4 if you can afford it put a small sofa or a twin bed in the nursery. You will sleep in there, I promise. (PLus, he will need a twin bed someday anyway)
5 dress him as something cute and fuzzy for Halloween, you can only do it while they are small.
6 ENJOY! Boys are so fun. ( You have an excellent opputunity to play with blocks and erector sets now. Hehe)
sleep while you can and take one day at a time..
I'm a new mother too...And the best advice is to stay calm, when you need help with anything ask questions, lots of questions..Don't be scared. Ask family for advice and help. Sleep when baby sleeps cause if you don't, you'll feel like you haven't slept in years. Internet is also a wonderful tool.
If you become inpatient with the baby, leave the room (as long as baby is safe) and take a breather, it becomes easier over time, and then the teething starts.
Thanks :)PARENTS: Do you have any advice to new/future parents?
First - CONGRATULATIONS! I think the best advise any one could give you is: be patient, sleep when your baby is sleeping, and lean on your family for support, especially if this is your first child.
Good Luck!PARENTS: Do you have any advice to new/future parents?
Love your baby with all your heart and put him before everyone else because you are his only mother, and if you don't give him that love, who will? Everything else is just stuff.
It helps to have lots of extended family nearby: cousins, uncles, aunts...
1 take pictures, take multiples, and distribute them, and back them up so you don't lose them ever.
2 sleep when he sleeps.some of my most treasured times with my son were when he was sleeping on my chest in the couch.
3 babies arent as fragile as they look. WHen my son was born i was afraid to dress him because I was worried I would break his arm putting it in sleeves. you won't.
4 if you can afford it put a small sofa or a twin bed in the nursery. You will sleep in there, I promise. (PLus, he will need a twin bed someday anyway)
5 dress him as something cute and fuzzy for Halloween, you can only do it while they are small.
6 ENJOY! Boys are so fun. ( You have an excellent opputunity to play with blocks and erector sets now. Hehe)
sleep while you can and take one day at a time..
I'm a new mother too...And the best advice is to stay calm, when you need help with anything ask questions, lots of questions..Don't be scared. Ask family for advice and help. Sleep when baby sleeps cause if you don't, you'll feel like you haven't slept in years. Internet is also a wonderful tool.
If you become inpatient with the baby, leave the room (as long as baby is safe) and take a breather, it becomes easier over time, and then the teething starts.
Do you ever give advice that you know you should be taking?
Give your own examples.Do you ever give advice that you know you should be taking?
All the time. Telling others that they should get some sleep and yet here I am.Do you ever give advice that you know you should be taking?
i told my friend not to date this guy b/c he was a player
fastforward
i had his baby 3mo ago
Yes, to my friend. I gave him advice on how to handle a situation with this girl he likes. Believe it or not things have gone really well between them which I'm glad. I know that if I would take my own advice I'd probably be in a relationship right now. Problem with me is shyness and self confidence.
I have done so in the distant past
Lots of advice on health and eating the right foods and I don't use the info myself.
all the time. I tell people they should exercise but i never do
sure, don't we all. sometimes i just say follow your heart, do what you feel is right, dont listen to others or go for it and i can't always come through with it all myself.
good question. it is my damn f**king problem.
i advice practice but i don't, study enough but i don't, do whatever you interdsted in but i don't.
i lost my hope that is why i am like this.
All the time. Telling others that they should get some sleep and yet here I am.Do you ever give advice that you know you should be taking?
i told my friend not to date this guy b/c he was a player
fastforward
i had his baby 3mo ago
Yes, to my friend. I gave him advice on how to handle a situation with this girl he likes. Believe it or not things have gone really well between them which I'm glad. I know that if I would take my own advice I'd probably be in a relationship right now. Problem with me is shyness and self confidence.
I have done so in the distant past
Lots of advice on health and eating the right foods and I don't use the info myself.
all the time. I tell people they should exercise but i never do
sure, don't we all. sometimes i just say follow your heart, do what you feel is right, dont listen to others or go for it and i can't always come through with it all myself.
good question. it is my damn f**king problem.
i advice practice but i don't, study enough but i don't, do whatever you interdsted in but i don't.
i lost my hope that is why i am like this.
What advice can you give to me to fear Allah...?
I am in complete distress...
I commit many many sins but I feel imperfect..
I want to turn to repentance to Allah but how?
Will Allah forgive me...?
How can I fear Allah?What advice can you give to me to fear Allah...?
Assalaamu alaikkum,
Will Allah forgive me?
Is a very bad question brother,
“And He it is Who accepts repentance from His slaves, and forgives sins, and He knows what you do”[al-Shooraa 42:25]
And you should repent like this,
“But whosoever repents after his crime and does righteous good deeds (by obeying Allaah), then verily, Allaah will pardon him (accept his repentance). Verily, Allaah is Oft Forgiving, Most Merciful [al-Maa’idah 5:39 – interpretation of the meaning]
Ask His forgiveness, never do that sin again, and make up by doing more no.of good deeds, Insha allah.
How can you fear Allah ?!!?!?
Brother, it is He who has your soul in His hands, by whose mercy do you think your heart beats? Who is giving u oxygen to breathe? Who is giving you food and shelter? Indeed it is ALLAH please do not become ungrateful, His wrath is very powerful and dangerous brother, so is the hell fire. Remember He is the only one who can protect you from the terrible fire of hell. Turn back to Him now, and repent, Insha allah, He, the most merciful loves His slaves and those who repent.What advice can you give to me to fear Allah...?
25:70. Except those who repent and believe (in Islamic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds, for those, Allah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
25:71. And whosoever repents and does righteous good deeds, then verily, he repents towards Allah with true repentance.
Isn't this enough to repent now, purely and completely?
15:56. [Ibrahim (Abraham)] said: ';And who despairs of the Mercy of his Lord except those who are astray?';
Isn't this emough to have hope in His mercy and repent now ?
All praise is due to Allaah, the Merciful
are you being serious? if you are then repent to Allah swt..
but you will just carry on insulting users here, but whatever.
woodenman- do you know this kid asked this countless times? if you have read some of his answers to some users you will doubt that he's even muslim, he says this + then uses his filthy words again.
by being Christian, LIKE ME :D
we love all people, and are exceptig, and God doesn't want us to fear him, he just wants respect and us wiling to be there for him, and no humans are perfect so its natural to sin, but if you ask our God to forgive you (Jesus) he will. But you have to forgive people who have doen you wrong in order for him to forgive you. :)
http://www.christianityrenewed.com/
EDIT: Why Am I Getting Thumbs Down??? i respect you guy's answer, so whats the point of the thumbs down??
omG.
by knowing that if you anger allah SWT ur whole life will be a misery... not only that but ur life in the akhrah will also be sh*t and so you will never feel joy or happiness EVER...
if that doesn't make u fear allah SWT then i don't know what will.
salamz
:)
Make taubah to Allah and don't get bobbed down by the past for his mercy out weighs his wrath. Ignore those trying to put you down brother they appear to be ignorant on how to treat others in their time of need
READ QURAN, DO SALAAT %26amp; DO DUA IN SAJDA TO ASK HIM TO FOR GIVE YOU.......AALLAH IS MERCIFUL HE WILL INSHAALLAH GRANT YOU................
Don't fear, but be grateful...........
Get lost you moron.
You said that THREE times Tahir Patel.
I'm not even sure you're Muslim.
Subhannallah.
Your not afraid of him?
You should.
I commit many many sins but I feel imperfect..
I want to turn to repentance to Allah but how?
Will Allah forgive me...?
How can I fear Allah?What advice can you give to me to fear Allah...?
Assalaamu alaikkum,
Will Allah forgive me?
Is a very bad question brother,
“And He it is Who accepts repentance from His slaves, and forgives sins, and He knows what you do”[al-Shooraa 42:25]
And you should repent like this,
“But whosoever repents after his crime and does righteous good deeds (by obeying Allaah), then verily, Allaah will pardon him (accept his repentance). Verily, Allaah is Oft Forgiving, Most Merciful [al-Maa’idah 5:39 – interpretation of the meaning]
Ask His forgiveness, never do that sin again, and make up by doing more no.of good deeds, Insha allah.
How can you fear Allah ?!!?!?
Brother, it is He who has your soul in His hands, by whose mercy do you think your heart beats? Who is giving u oxygen to breathe? Who is giving you food and shelter? Indeed it is ALLAH please do not become ungrateful, His wrath is very powerful and dangerous brother, so is the hell fire. Remember He is the only one who can protect you from the terrible fire of hell. Turn back to Him now, and repent, Insha allah, He, the most merciful loves His slaves and those who repent.What advice can you give to me to fear Allah...?
25:70. Except those who repent and believe (in Islamic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds, for those, Allah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
25:71. And whosoever repents and does righteous good deeds, then verily, he repents towards Allah with true repentance.
Isn't this enough to repent now, purely and completely?
15:56. [Ibrahim (Abraham)] said: ';And who despairs of the Mercy of his Lord except those who are astray?';
Isn't this emough to have hope in His mercy and repent now ?
All praise is due to Allaah, the Merciful
are you being serious? if you are then repent to Allah swt..
but you will just carry on insulting users here, but whatever.
woodenman- do you know this kid asked this countless times? if you have read some of his answers to some users you will doubt that he's even muslim, he says this + then uses his filthy words again.
by being Christian, LIKE ME :D
we love all people, and are exceptig, and God doesn't want us to fear him, he just wants respect and us wiling to be there for him, and no humans are perfect so its natural to sin, but if you ask our God to forgive you (Jesus) he will. But you have to forgive people who have doen you wrong in order for him to forgive you. :)
http://www.christianityrenewed.com/
EDIT: Why Am I Getting Thumbs Down??? i respect you guy's answer, so whats the point of the thumbs down??
omG.
by knowing that if you anger allah SWT ur whole life will be a misery... not only that but ur life in the akhrah will also be sh*t and so you will never feel joy or happiness EVER...
if that doesn't make u fear allah SWT then i don't know what will.
salamz
:)
Make taubah to Allah and don't get bobbed down by the past for his mercy out weighs his wrath. Ignore those trying to put you down brother they appear to be ignorant on how to treat others in their time of need
READ QURAN, DO SALAAT %26amp; DO DUA IN SAJDA TO ASK HIM TO FOR GIVE YOU.......AALLAH IS MERCIFUL HE WILL INSHAALLAH GRANT YOU................
Don't fear, but be grateful...........
Get lost you moron.
You said that THREE times Tahir Patel.
I'm not even sure you're Muslim.
Subhannallah.
Your not afraid of him?
You should.
What do you think please give me a piece of advice?
Hello everybody, I am Lina, I end up my relationship last monday. His friends and family are trying to make an agreement between us but i refused because, i made a requistion which says i will not continue the relationship unless he is sure of getting married as soon as we make an agreement and to make everything easy for me/concerning his behaviour/. What do you think?What do you think please give me a piece of advice?
okay this question is in visual arts so....
it's either about being boyfriend/girlfriend material, in which case I'd say you were right to end the relationship cuz you're not on the same page therefore will never fit in the same frame
or 'bout the visual aspect in the relationship being the problem, in which case I'd say real beauty comes from within but definitely shows on the outside if you have an artist's eye
or 'bout having artist block caused by personal problems, in which case I'd say you had good reasons to take this decision, now stick to it without thinking 'bout it right now and evaluate the situation in a fortnight
or this has nothing to do with art in which case you should post it elsewhere
okay this question is in visual arts so....
it's either about being boyfriend/girlfriend material, in which case I'd say you were right to end the relationship cuz you're not on the same page therefore will never fit in the same frame
or 'bout the visual aspect in the relationship being the problem, in which case I'd say real beauty comes from within but definitely shows on the outside if you have an artist's eye
or 'bout having artist block caused by personal problems, in which case I'd say you had good reasons to take this decision, now stick to it without thinking 'bout it right now and evaluate the situation in a fortnight
or this has nothing to do with art in which case you should post it elsewhere
I'm trying to change my wardrobe from casual to classy, an advice on key items that you think look classy?
i'm a size 5. i dont know what my height is but im average in height but more on the shorter side, do you get what i mean?I'm trying to change my wardrobe from casual to classy, an advice on key items that you think look classy?
I like cashmere sweaters. Also, try buying pencil skirts, pointed toe heels, trenchcoats, and button down shirts paired with sweaters. Anything in navy blue looks classy as well.I'm trying to change my wardrobe from casual to classy, an advice on key items that you think look classy?
Blazers/Jackets are great. Just make sure they fit properly, it can make all the difference in the world. Wear a nice button down blouse underneath. Pants in dark colors work well, again make sure the fit is perfect. And take really good care of your clothes. Make sure they're clean and ironed. If you do have some nice jewelry (it doesn't have to be a lot. One or two pieces will do), make sure it is clean also. Jewelry cleaner is inexpensive. And don't forget your shoes! Be sure they're clean and free of scuff marks. Remember to think about the whole look, polished and put together
I think wearing pearls is always classy
Dress up jeans with longchain necklaces and spike heels, with either a tight shirt and a short vest or a shirt dress and thick belt.
As long as you press and starch your old clothes and wear matching accessories you can re-invent anything in your closet.
Some tricks I've used when I didn't have a lot of money to buy new clothes:
1. Stop wearing printed/patterned clothes. No flowers, no polka dots, no stripes, no plaid. Solid colors always look more classy. Similarly, keep your bright colors up top and don't wear bright colored pants.
2. V-necks. Don't ask me why, but I think V-necks look more classy than round-necked shirts. I don't mean really low-cut V-necks or anything; you should wear them modestly. V-necks also help elongate the body for we girls of average or short stature.
3. Invest in some white long sleeved cotton T-shirts. Cheap! When you wear them under other long-sleeved shirts or under sweaters, and you get a bit of the white peeking out at the neckline and at the sleeves, I don't know, that just looks ';upgraded'; to me.
4. Get a good haircut, and take the time to style it appropriately every day. A good haircut makes a good outfit look even better.
Hope those help! Good luck.
less is more in the classy world..you don't want to wear anything too revealing, but actually classics that never go out of style...they say you should stay with three colors, so pick three colors that look good on you. I just saw these sweaters at Wallmart for 10.00...they're real soft and simple..with a round neck...point is you need some simple sweaters, some classic white shirts..a good coat..if your on the east coast, i'd go with a black or brown coat that fits you well..you'll need some pearls...fake are fine and wear them mid length..not real long..simple, natural looking fingernails that are not too long, or bright colors...makeup that is simple, but flattering...also, invest in some shoes..if your talking classy, your talking about being around people that probably have better jobs..and in the corporate world, they say a man's shoes tell a lot...if you have a Ross near you, i'd go there and get some flat simple leather shoes..it's okay to have a design, or some special stitching as long as it's done tastefully, and not too flashy...good luck
Check out some of the IDEAS on the main key pieces in J crew,Aeropostale (for more casual classy) American Eagle, Limited (for nice dress attire) and Banana Republic.(for high trendy fashion at an affordable normal price)..like a woman's suit,some khaki's, nice sweaters, although you are young live a little...you don't have to be conservative everyday at work just yet be young have fun but still have some nice classy dress clothes.
also look at Caribbean clothes form Puerto Rico and The Dominican Republic they are classy and comfortable and now in style and cool
Clean denim that is not distressed or ripped in any way is less casual, I like to wear dark blue clean denim skinny jeans with stilettos when I'm going out.. I guess it looks more classy. I suppose that the difference between looking classy and casual is looking polished? Shiny, conservative and clean. Not necessarily wearing high heels, trying to look flashy or exposing more flesh at all.
You could invest in a couple of good necklaces, (e.g. one gold one silver) that don't look cheap and that you'd be comfortable wearing again and again with a variety of outfits.
Stay away from low necklines and really short skirts, they can definately make you look less classy if not worn tastefully..
I like cashmere sweaters. Also, try buying pencil skirts, pointed toe heels, trenchcoats, and button down shirts paired with sweaters. Anything in navy blue looks classy as well.I'm trying to change my wardrobe from casual to classy, an advice on key items that you think look classy?
Blazers/Jackets are great. Just make sure they fit properly, it can make all the difference in the world. Wear a nice button down blouse underneath. Pants in dark colors work well, again make sure the fit is perfect. And take really good care of your clothes. Make sure they're clean and ironed. If you do have some nice jewelry (it doesn't have to be a lot. One or two pieces will do), make sure it is clean also. Jewelry cleaner is inexpensive. And don't forget your shoes! Be sure they're clean and free of scuff marks. Remember to think about the whole look, polished and put together
I think wearing pearls is always classy
Dress up jeans with longchain necklaces and spike heels, with either a tight shirt and a short vest or a shirt dress and thick belt.
As long as you press and starch your old clothes and wear matching accessories you can re-invent anything in your closet.
Some tricks I've used when I didn't have a lot of money to buy new clothes:
1. Stop wearing printed/patterned clothes. No flowers, no polka dots, no stripes, no plaid. Solid colors always look more classy. Similarly, keep your bright colors up top and don't wear bright colored pants.
2. V-necks. Don't ask me why, but I think V-necks look more classy than round-necked shirts. I don't mean really low-cut V-necks or anything; you should wear them modestly. V-necks also help elongate the body for we girls of average or short stature.
3. Invest in some white long sleeved cotton T-shirts. Cheap! When you wear them under other long-sleeved shirts or under sweaters, and you get a bit of the white peeking out at the neckline and at the sleeves, I don't know, that just looks ';upgraded'; to me.
4. Get a good haircut, and take the time to style it appropriately every day. A good haircut makes a good outfit look even better.
Hope those help! Good luck.
less is more in the classy world..you don't want to wear anything too revealing, but actually classics that never go out of style...they say you should stay with three colors, so pick three colors that look good on you. I just saw these sweaters at Wallmart for 10.00...they're real soft and simple..with a round neck...point is you need some simple sweaters, some classic white shirts..a good coat..if your on the east coast, i'd go with a black or brown coat that fits you well..you'll need some pearls...fake are fine and wear them mid length..not real long..simple, natural looking fingernails that are not too long, or bright colors...makeup that is simple, but flattering...also, invest in some shoes..if your talking classy, your talking about being around people that probably have better jobs..and in the corporate world, they say a man's shoes tell a lot...if you have a Ross near you, i'd go there and get some flat simple leather shoes..it's okay to have a design, or some special stitching as long as it's done tastefully, and not too flashy...good luck
Check out some of the IDEAS on the main key pieces in J crew,Aeropostale (for more casual classy) American Eagle, Limited (for nice dress attire) and Banana Republic.(for high trendy fashion at an affordable normal price)..like a woman's suit,some khaki's, nice sweaters, although you are young live a little...you don't have to be conservative everyday at work just yet be young have fun but still have some nice classy dress clothes.
also look at Caribbean clothes form Puerto Rico and The Dominican Republic they are classy and comfortable and now in style and cool
Clean denim that is not distressed or ripped in any way is less casual, I like to wear dark blue clean denim skinny jeans with stilettos when I'm going out.. I guess it looks more classy. I suppose that the difference between looking classy and casual is looking polished? Shiny, conservative and clean. Not necessarily wearing high heels, trying to look flashy or exposing more flesh at all.
You could invest in a couple of good necklaces, (e.g. one gold one silver) that don't look cheap and that you'd be comfortable wearing again and again with a variety of outfits.
Stay away from low necklines and really short skirts, they can definately make you look less classy if not worn tastefully..
Can you give me an advice: the best parfume for dating?
I am a girl, 19 years old. I live in tropic climate.Can you give me an advice: the best parfume for dating?
WHITE DIAMONDS. Elizabeth Taylor. The one that is yellow color. You can find it a good price on Walmart or Kmart.Can you give me an advice: the best parfume for dating?
something fruity or floral or both. make sure it's not too over-powering but not too subtle.
That depends on your likes and dislikes, as well as on your wishes for the evening. Do you want to appear young and innocent or more seductive like if you are a brunette and want to stress that fact you might prefer something a bit exotic, but if you are a blonde you may want something with a fresh, crisp smell. As to the brands you must ask at the shop, also because some perfumes may change with skin contact. It's important to find that out before buying.
Angel by Thierry mugler, or Classique by Jean Paul Gaultier. Both are yummy!
LOVE SPELL from Victoria's Secret. i wear it and my boyfriend loves it, also SWEET TEMTATION is good too, smells like those sour gummy worms...sounds weird but its to die for! but i would stick with love spell.
Go to Victorias Secret...they have great perfumes and body sprays! Try their Love Spell Body Spray...its not a ';heavy'; scent...good luck!homemade mask
WHITE DIAMONDS. Elizabeth Taylor. The one that is yellow color. You can find it a good price on Walmart or Kmart.Can you give me an advice: the best parfume for dating?
something fruity or floral or both. make sure it's not too over-powering but not too subtle.
That depends on your likes and dislikes, as well as on your wishes for the evening. Do you want to appear young and innocent or more seductive like if you are a brunette and want to stress that fact you might prefer something a bit exotic, but if you are a blonde you may want something with a fresh, crisp smell. As to the brands you must ask at the shop, also because some perfumes may change with skin contact. It's important to find that out before buying.
Angel by Thierry mugler, or Classique by Jean Paul Gaultier. Both are yummy!
LOVE SPELL from Victoria's Secret. i wear it and my boyfriend loves it, also SWEET TEMTATION is good too, smells like those sour gummy worms...sounds weird but its to die for! but i would stick with love spell.
Go to Victorias Secret...they have great perfumes and body sprays! Try their Love Spell Body Spray...its not a ';heavy'; scent...good luck!
If you could travel back to when you were younger, would you give yourself advice?
If so, what would it be?
I'm pretty sure I would mention the importance of a pre-nup...If you could travel back to when you were younger, would you give yourself advice?
Lay off the hallucinogens, be more understanding with your mum, don't wait years to dump the boyfriend, and don't take the depo shot because it will make you fat. But, I don't think I would really change anything because I wouldn't have the life I do now.If you could travel back to when you were younger, would you give yourself advice?
Of course most would like to. But what if you are wrong now, and thinking you are right you go back to the past and give yourself wrong advice? Then you come back to the present and find yourself or others worse off? Such power to go back in time may make things worse and could not be advisable to entrust to us mere mortals. I would like to go back in time and observe major historical events without changing them however.
I also believe that God has a plan for our lives. We may not see it right now and would like to change some things about our lives but as scripture says, 'those who hope in the Lord will not be disappointed'.
Yeah. I'd urge the younger me not to be such a damn procrastinator.
To be honest, I'm happy with how my life has turned out to be so far, but if there's one thing that has plagued me throughout, then its procrastination. I lack discipline, and it has caused many problems in my life as a result.
Girl, don't let yourself get fat! Nothing tastes so good it's worth ruining your health, and your prospects for being treated as a normal human being. And when they tell you some men prefer women who are plump, they don't tell you that their reasons are mostly pretty unsavory.
Yeah, I'd jump at the chance to kick my younger self in the butt at a particular point in my life. My advise would be, ';Get your head out of your *** and look at what you are screwing up!'; Things ended up okay, but sure could have avoided a lot of grief along the way.
Yes. I'd tell myself this:
*That shortcut really isn't one.
*That guy isn't going to really be interested in your mind.
*Your poetry will suck for the next 6 years or so, but keep it up because it will eventually get better.
*No matter how much it hurts you, the pain does end and you will get through it.
i should of really list end to people b4 i married my x they seen things differently then i did yes people are right love is blind the man im with for 3 wonderful years my family and friends love him i caught the best one threw my time he is a keeper !!!!!!
just leave a note of where i should be or how to act around certain situations.
because seing myself face to face wont easly accomplish anything.
There are several things I would do differently. I wouldn't have gotten a prenup, but I can pretty much guarantee that I wouldn't have gotten married in the 1st place.
I would tell myself to never ever under any circumstance smoke cigarettes. And to spend more time with my dad and ask him more about his life and thoughts on life.
I would give myself the hugest wedgie and give myself a charlie horse
other than that, I'm content with myself now
I'd give him all the information I know about Christianity now to help him from the transition of being Agnostic to become a complete Atheist.
I would tell myself to start learning to Invest for Wealth earlier, to pickup ';Rich Dad, Poor Dad'; sooner..
Ohh and Buy as much gold as possible.
MasterminD took the words right out of my mouth.
Procrastination is the reason I spend so much damn time around this place.
(((Goddess)))
No advice, but I'd probably give myself some good betting tips.
No because doing so would alter who I am now, and I am pretty OK with me.
Nope.
Chaos theory, which states that a small change in one place can have a dramatically large change in another place. The ';Butterfly Effect';, if you will.
Try harder to find a woman in college.
I would tell my young self that not all adults are trustworthy and not all of them deserve respect
Yes I would try to help me out with things so I could save time and energy, and money too.
I might tell myself not to settle down so young.
I would whisper in my ear: ';Dude! Amy Seymour will totally put out if you just tell her how cute she is and how much you like her!';
seriously, I would slap myself.
I read enough books to choke a herd of Bison.
I was such a nerd.
Yep!
My advice to myself.. ';don't trip. the clouds are supposed to be moved by the wind.';
To not worry, to not be so scared of it all ending, to keep pressing forward, to never say never, and to block out the ones that were/are toxic.
I'm pretty sure I would mention the importance of a pre-nup...If you could travel back to when you were younger, would you give yourself advice?
Lay off the hallucinogens, be more understanding with your mum, don't wait years to dump the boyfriend, and don't take the depo shot because it will make you fat. But, I don't think I would really change anything because I wouldn't have the life I do now.If you could travel back to when you were younger, would you give yourself advice?
Of course most would like to. But what if you are wrong now, and thinking you are right you go back to the past and give yourself wrong advice? Then you come back to the present and find yourself or others worse off? Such power to go back in time may make things worse and could not be advisable to entrust to us mere mortals. I would like to go back in time and observe major historical events without changing them however.
I also believe that God has a plan for our lives. We may not see it right now and would like to change some things about our lives but as scripture says, 'those who hope in the Lord will not be disappointed'.
Yeah. I'd urge the younger me not to be such a damn procrastinator.
To be honest, I'm happy with how my life has turned out to be so far, but if there's one thing that has plagued me throughout, then its procrastination. I lack discipline, and it has caused many problems in my life as a result.
Girl, don't let yourself get fat! Nothing tastes so good it's worth ruining your health, and your prospects for being treated as a normal human being. And when they tell you some men prefer women who are plump, they don't tell you that their reasons are mostly pretty unsavory.
Yeah, I'd jump at the chance to kick my younger self in the butt at a particular point in my life. My advise would be, ';Get your head out of your *** and look at what you are screwing up!'; Things ended up okay, but sure could have avoided a lot of grief along the way.
Yes. I'd tell myself this:
*That shortcut really isn't one.
*That guy isn't going to really be interested in your mind.
*Your poetry will suck for the next 6 years or so, but keep it up because it will eventually get better.
*No matter how much it hurts you, the pain does end and you will get through it.
i should of really list end to people b4 i married my x they seen things differently then i did yes people are right love is blind the man im with for 3 wonderful years my family and friends love him i caught the best one threw my time he is a keeper !!!!!!
just leave a note of where i should be or how to act around certain situations.
because seing myself face to face wont easly accomplish anything.
There are several things I would do differently. I wouldn't have gotten a prenup, but I can pretty much guarantee that I wouldn't have gotten married in the 1st place.
I would tell myself to never ever under any circumstance smoke cigarettes. And to spend more time with my dad and ask him more about his life and thoughts on life.
I would give myself the hugest wedgie and give myself a charlie horse
other than that, I'm content with myself now
I'd give him all the information I know about Christianity now to help him from the transition of being Agnostic to become a complete Atheist.
I would tell myself to start learning to Invest for Wealth earlier, to pickup ';Rich Dad, Poor Dad'; sooner..
Ohh and Buy as much gold as possible.
MasterminD took the words right out of my mouth.
Procrastination is the reason I spend so much damn time around this place.
(((Goddess)))
No advice, but I'd probably give myself some good betting tips.
No because doing so would alter who I am now, and I am pretty OK with me.
Nope.
Chaos theory, which states that a small change in one place can have a dramatically large change in another place. The ';Butterfly Effect';, if you will.
Try harder to find a woman in college.
I would tell my young self that not all adults are trustworthy and not all of them deserve respect
Yes I would try to help me out with things so I could save time and energy, and money too.
I might tell myself not to settle down so young.
I would whisper in my ear: ';Dude! Amy Seymour will totally put out if you just tell her how cute she is and how much you like her!';
seriously, I would slap myself.
I read enough books to choke a herd of Bison.
I was such a nerd.
Yep!
My advice to myself.. ';don't trip. the clouds are supposed to be moved by the wind.';
To not worry, to not be so scared of it all ending, to keep pressing forward, to never say never, and to block out the ones that were/are toxic.
Do you have any advice on this?
I need a product that helps heal cuts on my face, their small but I need one. And I also need a product that helps scars go away, theyre small on my face too but do you guys have any advice on this? I need an inexpensive product. And also any advice on how to clear my face from pimples or anything? I dont have a lot of acne just medium i guess you could say and their not very very noticeable but I wouldlike to have it clear. Thank youuu.Do you have any advice on this?
Try aloe veraDo you have any advice on this?
Neosporin helps heal cuts, you can get it at the drugstore. To help hide scars, you can also buy Neosporin Scar Solution which helps scars look less noticeable. I use Clearasil to keep acne under control.
Try aloe veraDo you have any advice on this?
Neosporin helps heal cuts, you can get it at the drugstore. To help hide scars, you can also buy Neosporin Scar Solution which helps scars look less noticeable. I use Clearasil to keep acne under control.
I need your advice guys, do you think there is someone out there for everyone?
I really feel like there's isn't a true love out there for me...i just feel different from most people and i don't know if he's out there...what do you guys think? you think everyone can find love?I need your advice guys, do you think there is someone out there for everyone?
in my opinion there is no such thing as true love. there are over 6 billiion people in this world, its is very likely that the ';soulmate'; you want will never find you. all you can do is find the person who is close if not the closest to being your true lover.
love isn't like a present wrapped for christmas waiting for you under the christmas tree, love is something that has to be developed %26amp; takes a while for it to be achieved.
best of luck, i hope you find the right guy :)I need your advice guys, do you think there is someone out there for everyone?
Mandy May the ans. to the question is no. There isn't someone for everyone. You may spend the rest of your life alone but you have to learn to love yourself before someone enters your heart and create a coronary misfit. If your heart is strong, you will be ready for the love of a good man. or you will be able to let a bad one go. good luck
Everyone can find love, whether it's one or two people in a lifetime or several. Everyone is capable of finding love. Some find it easier than others, it's up to you to get yourself out there so that you and your future love can find each other.
i think everyone has someone. it comes sooner for some people, while others it takes a litte while. i think everyone has someone though. you just need to remember that someone out there is looking for you and is your soulmate. :)
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in my opinion there is no such thing as true love. there are over 6 billiion people in this world, its is very likely that the ';soulmate'; you want will never find you. all you can do is find the person who is close if not the closest to being your true lover.
love isn't like a present wrapped for christmas waiting for you under the christmas tree, love is something that has to be developed %26amp; takes a while for it to be achieved.
best of luck, i hope you find the right guy :)I need your advice guys, do you think there is someone out there for everyone?
Mandy May the ans. to the question is no. There isn't someone for everyone. You may spend the rest of your life alone but you have to learn to love yourself before someone enters your heart and create a coronary misfit. If your heart is strong, you will be ready for the love of a good man. or you will be able to let a bad one go. good luck
Everyone can find love, whether it's one or two people in a lifetime or several. Everyone is capable of finding love. Some find it easier than others, it's up to you to get yourself out there so that you and your future love can find each other.
i think everyone has someone. it comes sooner for some people, while others it takes a litte while. i think everyone has someone though. you just need to remember that someone out there is looking for you and is your soulmate. :)
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I am a young aspiaring singer and want to get discovered. please give me any advice you have.?
Talent agencies. Do recordings and make demo CDs. Try to write your own music too. Also get a voice teacher if you don't already have one. And participate in school performances(if you're in school), choirs, and such.I am a young aspiaring singer and want to get discovered. please give me any advice you have.?
1. Get a professional teacher who can give you the proper techniques and studies .
2. Demos,Talent shows etc.....................
are nothing but a waste of money and time if you do not have the musical skills .
3. Record companies do not give contracts anymore that is a thing of the past .
4. Do not watch American Idol because 99% of the people who audition cannot sing .I am a young aspiaring singer and want to get discovered. please give me any advice you have.?
you should post videos of you singing songs on youtube, thats how alot of the singers today are famous, talent agencies watch them...=)
1. Get a professional teacher who can give you the proper techniques and studies .
2. Demos,Talent shows etc.....................
are nothing but a waste of money and time if you do not have the musical skills .
3. Record companies do not give contracts anymore that is a thing of the past .
4. Do not watch American Idol because 99% of the people who audition cannot sing .I am a young aspiaring singer and want to get discovered. please give me any advice you have.?
you should post videos of you singing songs on youtube, thats how alot of the singers today are famous, talent agencies watch them...=)
Photography advice what would you get?
If you had enough money spare to buy a Canon EOS 40D or a nikon d80 would you buy one of those or would you spend it on a new lens if you already had a nikon d40 and a canon eos 1000d ?Photography advice what would you get?
anything just not the 1000D (not particularly good quality)Photography advice what would you get?
New lens! :)
My recommendation would be to buy new lenses for versatility if you already have cameras. Then, later on, consider upgrading to a new camera when the quality is further advanced.
If I already had the body I would buy a lens. Glass (lenses) last for decades. Bodies are disposable. With that said Canon and Nikon are head to head competitors. Both are going to have excellent bodies and lenses. It just comes down to preference.
anything just not the 1000D (not particularly good quality)Photography advice what would you get?
New lens! :)
My recommendation would be to buy new lenses for versatility if you already have cameras. Then, later on, consider upgrading to a new camera when the quality is further advanced.
If I already had the body I would buy a lens. Glass (lenses) last for decades. Bodies are disposable. With that said Canon and Nikon are head to head competitors. Both are going to have excellent bodies and lenses. It just comes down to preference.
What would you do i need advice?
If your 20, and make 80k a year cash and already have $182,000 saved up would you still go to college?What would you do i need advice?
Yes, but I would take my time. You are making EXCELLENT money right now. So you can take your time and take a few classes here and there without stress. Plus, when you have a degree, you have something to fall back on. If you lost your 80K a year job, you might not even come close to finding something that pays you that well. This is what is happening to a lot of people even with degrees. They were making really great money, living very comfortable and then they lost their jobs and they are in a catch 22 situation. They can't find a job that pays them what they were use to making and other employers find that they are too over qualified and don't want to hire them because they can't pay them enough. Education is a good thing to have.What would you do i need advice?
I know that the right answer is ';Yes. A college education is the most valuable thing.'; As someone who is experiencing how difficult it is to go through college during a tough economy, I would recommend doing what feels right to do. An undergraduate degree is no longer a guarantee for a great job. It may or may not open up opportunities for the future. I think that the most valuable thing to do is to continue to work and save money as long as you can. If you are no longer getting anything out of college, then maybe it is time to stop for a while.
I started working in college and it lead me to network with great people that have agreed to pay for my education. I've also been contracted into a great job. That was just my personal experience and I am sure that it does not happen to everyone. The bottom line is, if you are smart enough and meet the right people, there are just as many opportunities out there (as long as you are not expecting to be a brain surgeon or a rocket scientist, of course).
I hope that my rambling was as least somewhat helpful.
Yes. So when I finish college, I'll even have more. =P
But if where you get that much money is for a lifetime.. then, no.:D
Depends on how you made your cash. What do you do?
I'm 19 years old, and i say yes. And education is a good thing to have. It adds credentials to anything you're doing.homemade mask
Yes, but I would take my time. You are making EXCELLENT money right now. So you can take your time and take a few classes here and there without stress. Plus, when you have a degree, you have something to fall back on. If you lost your 80K a year job, you might not even come close to finding something that pays you that well. This is what is happening to a lot of people even with degrees. They were making really great money, living very comfortable and then they lost their jobs and they are in a catch 22 situation. They can't find a job that pays them what they were use to making and other employers find that they are too over qualified and don't want to hire them because they can't pay them enough. Education is a good thing to have.What would you do i need advice?
I know that the right answer is ';Yes. A college education is the most valuable thing.'; As someone who is experiencing how difficult it is to go through college during a tough economy, I would recommend doing what feels right to do. An undergraduate degree is no longer a guarantee for a great job. It may or may not open up opportunities for the future. I think that the most valuable thing to do is to continue to work and save money as long as you can. If you are no longer getting anything out of college, then maybe it is time to stop for a while.
I started working in college and it lead me to network with great people that have agreed to pay for my education. I've also been contracted into a great job. That was just my personal experience and I am sure that it does not happen to everyone. The bottom line is, if you are smart enough and meet the right people, there are just as many opportunities out there (as long as you are not expecting to be a brain surgeon or a rocket scientist, of course).
I hope that my rambling was as least somewhat helpful.
Yes. So when I finish college, I'll even have more. =P
But if where you get that much money is for a lifetime.. then, no.:D
Depends on how you made your cash. What do you do?
I'm 19 years old, and i say yes. And education is a good thing to have. It adds credentials to anything you're doing.
Please help. I am so nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am taking the Comprehensive Exam tomorrow morning. I have been studying for the test since Jan. I am already for the exam. However, I am so nervous. Please advice. Thank you.
A good night sleep would help alot. Although How can I get one? lol :)Please help. I am so nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
ok so this is the best addvice for any test:
take the whole day off!! and reeeeeeeeeeeeeelax, whenever you feel nervious do 25 jumping jacks to get your heartbeat up... and when you feel like you did enought lie down on your bed. Keep your mind on something else; like watch your favorite channel/tv show. Also being with friends works really good too. Invite a couple friends over or go to the mall. The best way to get a good night rest is to watch Tv (2 movies) until you start yawning; then if you need to just fall asleep on the couch and tell someone to wake you up so you can go to your own bed; that way you will go straight to bed without thinking of anything because you'll be too tired. Remember that you have studied and you will do fine.... Being nervous is not going to help you; your destiny wont change so stop killing yourself.Please help. I am so nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
No caffine before bed. Get in early to bed and do deep breathing exercises. You will be great tomorrow because you prepared for the test !!! Good Luck!
Do not drink any caffine, get a good night's sleep, have a good breakfast, and do a quick study b4 bed.
Find a comedy on tv and laugh. Before you go to bed go for a walk and clear your head. Set two alarm clocks. You will be fine.
I'll bet you dinner that you'll do great. If you win I'll take you to dinner.
If I win then you come to Toronto and buy me dinner. Deal?
P.S. We have 10 feet of snow so bring your snow shoes.
Drink some Chamomile Tea. It will help you to relax. You also might try some progressive relaxation techniques.
A good night sleep would help alot. Although How can I get one? lol :)Please help. I am so nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
ok so this is the best addvice for any test:
take the whole day off!! and reeeeeeeeeeeeeelax, whenever you feel nervious do 25 jumping jacks to get your heartbeat up... and when you feel like you did enought lie down on your bed. Keep your mind on something else; like watch your favorite channel/tv show. Also being with friends works really good too. Invite a couple friends over or go to the mall. The best way to get a good night rest is to watch Tv (2 movies) until you start yawning; then if you need to just fall asleep on the couch and tell someone to wake you up so you can go to your own bed; that way you will go straight to bed without thinking of anything because you'll be too tired. Remember that you have studied and you will do fine.... Being nervous is not going to help you; your destiny wont change so stop killing yourself.Please help. I am so nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
No caffine before bed. Get in early to bed and do deep breathing exercises. You will be great tomorrow because you prepared for the test !!! Good Luck!
Do not drink any caffine, get a good night's sleep, have a good breakfast, and do a quick study b4 bed.
Find a comedy on tv and laugh. Before you go to bed go for a walk and clear your head. Set two alarm clocks. You will be fine.
I'll bet you dinner that you'll do great. If you win I'll take you to dinner.
If I win then you come to Toronto and buy me dinner. Deal?
P.S. We have 10 feet of snow so bring your snow shoes.
Drink some Chamomile Tea. It will help you to relax. You also might try some progressive relaxation techniques.
What can you advice about having a introverted uterus?
My sis-in-law has one...I was with her on one of her ob-gyn visits, and the doctor prescribed lots of Vit. E for her, alongside with other vitamins ( i forgot what it is!)...
then doc told her that when havin sex they should do it doggie-style...and it also helps when you maintain the doggie-position for a few minutes (without havin sex)..kinda like an exercise, you know...
and yeah, if you're on the heavy side try to lose some weight.
goodluck!What can you advice about having a introverted uterus?
I assume, the doctor told you that you had one, right? Up until that time, did you know it? There really is no advice EXCEPT does it hurt when you have sex in the missionary position? If it does, get on top or ';doggie style';. I also have one.What can you advice about having a introverted uterus?
i really think that you mean retroverted or tilted uterus. This is a normal condition and many women have it and have children normally and many have no symptoms at all. Some people though may have problems or pain when having sex or excessively uncomfortable periods or it can be a warning sign of another underlying reproductive issue, including pelvic inflammatory disease or endometriosis.
then doc told her that when havin sex they should do it doggie-style...and it also helps when you maintain the doggie-position for a few minutes (without havin sex)..kinda like an exercise, you know...
and yeah, if you're on the heavy side try to lose some weight.
goodluck!What can you advice about having a introverted uterus?
I assume, the doctor told you that you had one, right? Up until that time, did you know it? There really is no advice EXCEPT does it hurt when you have sex in the missionary position? If it does, get on top or ';doggie style';. I also have one.What can you advice about having a introverted uterus?
i really think that you mean retroverted or tilted uterus. This is a normal condition and many women have it and have children normally and many have no symptoms at all. Some people though may have problems or pain when having sex or excessively uncomfortable periods or it can be a warning sign of another underlying reproductive issue, including pelvic inflammatory disease or endometriosis.
Can you give me an advice: the best parfume for dating?
I am a girl, 19 years old. I live in tropic climate.Can you give me an advice: the best parfume for dating?
Angel by Thierry mugler, or Classique by Jean Paul Gaultier. Both are yummy!Can you give me an advice: the best parfume for dating?
something fruity or floral or both. make sure it's not too over-powering but not too subtle.
WHITE DIAMONDS. Elizabeth Taylor. The one that is yellow color. You can find it a good price on Walmart or Kmart.
Go to Victorias Secret...they have great perfumes and body sprays! Try their Love Spell Body Spray...its not a ';heavy'; scent...good luck!
LOVE SPELL from Victoria's Secret. i wear it and my boyfriend loves it, also SWEET TEMTATION is good too, smells like those sour gummy worms...sounds weird but its to die for! but i would stick with love spell.
That depends on your likes and dislikes, as well as on your wishes for the evening. Do you want to appear young and innocent or more seductive like if you are a brunette and want to stress that fact you might prefer something a bit exotic, but if you are a blonde you may want something with a fresh, crisp smell. As to the brands you must ask at the shop, also because some perfumes may change with skin contact. It's important to find that out before buying.
Angel by Thierry mugler, or Classique by Jean Paul Gaultier. Both are yummy!Can you give me an advice: the best parfume for dating?
something fruity or floral or both. make sure it's not too over-powering but not too subtle.
WHITE DIAMONDS. Elizabeth Taylor. The one that is yellow color. You can find it a good price on Walmart or Kmart.
Go to Victorias Secret...they have great perfumes and body sprays! Try their Love Spell Body Spray...its not a ';heavy'; scent...good luck!
LOVE SPELL from Victoria's Secret. i wear it and my boyfriend loves it, also SWEET TEMTATION is good too, smells like those sour gummy worms...sounds weird but its to die for! but i would stick with love spell.
That depends on your likes and dislikes, as well as on your wishes for the evening. Do you want to appear young and innocent or more seductive like if you are a brunette and want to stress that fact you might prefer something a bit exotic, but if you are a blonde you may want something with a fresh, crisp smell. As to the brands you must ask at the shop, also because some perfumes may change with skin contact. It's important to find that out before buying.
If you could travel back to when you were younger, would you give yourself advice?
If so, what would it be?
I'm pretty sure I would mention the importance of a pre-nup...If you could travel back to when you were younger, would you give yourself advice?
Lay off the hallucinogens, be more understanding with your mum, don't wait years to dump the boyfriend, and don't take the depo shot because it will make you fat. But, I don't think I would really change anything because I wouldn't have the life I do now.If you could travel back to when you were younger, would you give yourself advice?
Of course most would like to. But what if you are wrong now, and thinking you are right you go back to the past and give yourself wrong advice? Then you come back to the present and find yourself or others worse off? Such power to go back in time may make things worse and could not be advisable to entrust to us mere mortals. I would like to go back in time and observe major historical events without changing them however.
I also believe that God has a plan for our lives. We may not see it right now and would like to change some things about our lives but as scripture says, 'those who hope in the Lord will not be disappointed'.
Yeah. I'd urge the younger me not to be such a damn procrastinator.
To be honest, I'm happy with how my life has turned out to be so far, but if there's one thing that has plagued me throughout, then its procrastination. I lack discipline, and it has caused many problems in my life as a result.
Girl, don't let yourself get fat! Nothing tastes so good it's worth ruining your health, and your prospects for being treated as a normal human being. And when they tell you some men prefer women who are plump, they don't tell you that their reasons are mostly pretty unsavory.
Yeah, I'd jump at the chance to kick my younger self in the butt at a particular point in my life. My advise would be, ';Get your head out of your *** and look at what you are screwing up!'; Things ended up okay, but sure could have avoided a lot of grief along the way.
Yes. I'd tell myself this:
*That shortcut really isn't one.
*That guy isn't going to really be interested in your mind.
*Your poetry will suck for the next 6 years or so, but keep it up because it will eventually get better.
*No matter how much it hurts you, the pain does end and you will get through it.
i should of really list end to people b4 i married my x they seen things differently then i did yes people are right love is blind the man im with for 3 wonderful years my family and friends love him i caught the best one threw my time he is a keeper !!!!!!
just leave a note of where i should be or how to act around certain situations.
because seing myself face to face wont easly accomplish anything.
There are several things I would do differently. I wouldn't have gotten a prenup, but I can pretty much guarantee that I wouldn't have gotten married in the 1st place.
I would tell myself to never ever under any circumstance smoke cigarettes. And to spend more time with my dad and ask him more about his life and thoughts on life.
I would give myself the hugest wedgie and give myself a charlie horse
other than that, I'm content with myself now
I'd give him all the information I know about Christianity now to help him from the transition of being Agnostic to become a complete Atheist.
I would tell myself to start learning to Invest for Wealth earlier, to pickup ';Rich Dad, Poor Dad'; sooner..
Ohh and Buy as much gold as possible.
MasterminD took the words right out of my mouth.
Procrastination is the reason I spend so much damn time around this place.
(((Goddess)))
No advice, but I'd probably give myself some good betting tips.
No because doing so would alter who I am now, and I am pretty OK with me.
Nope.
Chaos theory, which states that a small change in one place can have a dramatically large change in another place. The ';Butterfly Effect';, if you will.
Try harder to find a woman in college.
I would tell my young self that not all adults are trustworthy and not all of them deserve respect
Yes I would try to help me out with things so I could save time and energy, and money too.
I might tell myself not to settle down so young.
I would whisper in my ear: ';Dude! Amy Seymour will totally put out if you just tell her how cute she is and how much you like her!';
seriously, I would slap myself.
I read enough books to choke a herd of Bison.
I was such a nerd.
Yep!
My advice to myself.. ';don't trip. the clouds are supposed to be moved by the wind.';
To not worry, to not be so scared of it all ending, to keep pressing forward, to never say never, and to block out the ones that were/are toxic.
I'm pretty sure I would mention the importance of a pre-nup...If you could travel back to when you were younger, would you give yourself advice?
Lay off the hallucinogens, be more understanding with your mum, don't wait years to dump the boyfriend, and don't take the depo shot because it will make you fat. But, I don't think I would really change anything because I wouldn't have the life I do now.If you could travel back to when you were younger, would you give yourself advice?
Of course most would like to. But what if you are wrong now, and thinking you are right you go back to the past and give yourself wrong advice? Then you come back to the present and find yourself or others worse off? Such power to go back in time may make things worse and could not be advisable to entrust to us mere mortals. I would like to go back in time and observe major historical events without changing them however.
I also believe that God has a plan for our lives. We may not see it right now and would like to change some things about our lives but as scripture says, 'those who hope in the Lord will not be disappointed'.
Yeah. I'd urge the younger me not to be such a damn procrastinator.
To be honest, I'm happy with how my life has turned out to be so far, but if there's one thing that has plagued me throughout, then its procrastination. I lack discipline, and it has caused many problems in my life as a result.
Girl, don't let yourself get fat! Nothing tastes so good it's worth ruining your health, and your prospects for being treated as a normal human being. And when they tell you some men prefer women who are plump, they don't tell you that their reasons are mostly pretty unsavory.
Yeah, I'd jump at the chance to kick my younger self in the butt at a particular point in my life. My advise would be, ';Get your head out of your *** and look at what you are screwing up!'; Things ended up okay, but sure could have avoided a lot of grief along the way.
Yes. I'd tell myself this:
*That shortcut really isn't one.
*That guy isn't going to really be interested in your mind.
*Your poetry will suck for the next 6 years or so, but keep it up because it will eventually get better.
*No matter how much it hurts you, the pain does end and you will get through it.
i should of really list end to people b4 i married my x they seen things differently then i did yes people are right love is blind the man im with for 3 wonderful years my family and friends love him i caught the best one threw my time he is a keeper !!!!!!
just leave a note of where i should be or how to act around certain situations.
because seing myself face to face wont easly accomplish anything.
There are several things I would do differently. I wouldn't have gotten a prenup, but I can pretty much guarantee that I wouldn't have gotten married in the 1st place.
I would tell myself to never ever under any circumstance smoke cigarettes. And to spend more time with my dad and ask him more about his life and thoughts on life.
I would give myself the hugest wedgie and give myself a charlie horse
other than that, I'm content with myself now
I'd give him all the information I know about Christianity now to help him from the transition of being Agnostic to become a complete Atheist.
I would tell myself to start learning to Invest for Wealth earlier, to pickup ';Rich Dad, Poor Dad'; sooner..
Ohh and Buy as much gold as possible.
MasterminD took the words right out of my mouth.
Procrastination is the reason I spend so much damn time around this place.
(((Goddess)))
No advice, but I'd probably give myself some good betting tips.
No because doing so would alter who I am now, and I am pretty OK with me.
Nope.
Chaos theory, which states that a small change in one place can have a dramatically large change in another place. The ';Butterfly Effect';, if you will.
Try harder to find a woman in college.
I would tell my young self that not all adults are trustworthy and not all of them deserve respect
Yes I would try to help me out with things so I could save time and energy, and money too.
I might tell myself not to settle down so young.
I would whisper in my ear: ';Dude! Amy Seymour will totally put out if you just tell her how cute she is and how much you like her!';
seriously, I would slap myself.
I read enough books to choke a herd of Bison.
I was such a nerd.
Yep!
My advice to myself.. ';don't trip. the clouds are supposed to be moved by the wind.';
To not worry, to not be so scared of it all ending, to keep pressing forward, to never say never, and to block out the ones that were/are toxic.
Do you have any advice on this?
I need a product that helps heal cuts on my face, their small but I need one. And I also need a product that helps scars go away, theyre small on my face too but do you guys have any advice on this? I need an inexpensive product. And also any advice on how to clear my face from pimples or anything? I dont have a lot of acne just medium i guess you could say and their not very very noticeable but I wouldlike to have it clear. Thank youuu.Do you have any advice on this?
Neosporin helps heal cuts, you can get it at the drugstore. To help hide scars, you can also buy Neosporin Scar Solution which helps scars look less noticeable. I use Clearasil to keep acne under control.Do you have any advice on this?
Try aloe vera
Neosporin helps heal cuts, you can get it at the drugstore. To help hide scars, you can also buy Neosporin Scar Solution which helps scars look less noticeable. I use Clearasil to keep acne under control.Do you have any advice on this?
Try aloe vera
I need your advice guys, do you think there is someone out there for everyone?
I really feel like there's isn't a true love out there for me...i just feel different from most people and i don't know if he's out there...what do you guys think? you think everyone can find love?I need your advice guys, do you think there is someone out there for everyone?
in my opinion there is no such thing as true love. there are over 6 billiion people in this world, its is very likely that the ';soulmate'; you want will never find you. all you can do is find the person who is close if not the closest to being your true lover.
love isn't like a present wrapped for christmas waiting for you under the christmas tree, love is something that has to be developed %26amp; takes a while for it to be achieved.
best of luck, i hope you find the right guy :)I need your advice guys, do you think there is someone out there for everyone?
Everyone can find love, whether it's one or two people in a lifetime or several. Everyone is capable of finding love. Some find it easier than others, it's up to you to get yourself out there so that you and your future love can find each other.
i think everyone has someone. it comes sooner for some people, while others it takes a litte while. i think everyone has someone though. you just need to remember that someone out there is looking for you and is your soulmate. :)
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Mandy May the ans. to the question is no. There isn't someone for everyone. You may spend the rest of your life alone but you have to learn to love yourself before someone enters your heart and create a coronary misfit. If your heart is strong, you will be ready for the love of a good man. or you will be able to let a bad one go. good luckhomemade mask
in my opinion there is no such thing as true love. there are over 6 billiion people in this world, its is very likely that the ';soulmate'; you want will never find you. all you can do is find the person who is close if not the closest to being your true lover.
love isn't like a present wrapped for christmas waiting for you under the christmas tree, love is something that has to be developed %26amp; takes a while for it to be achieved.
best of luck, i hope you find the right guy :)I need your advice guys, do you think there is someone out there for everyone?
Everyone can find love, whether it's one or two people in a lifetime or several. Everyone is capable of finding love. Some find it easier than others, it's up to you to get yourself out there so that you and your future love can find each other.
i think everyone has someone. it comes sooner for some people, while others it takes a litte while. i think everyone has someone though. you just need to remember that someone out there is looking for you and is your soulmate. :)
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Mandy May the ans. to the question is no. There isn't someone for everyone. You may spend the rest of your life alone but you have to learn to love yourself before someone enters your heart and create a coronary misfit. If your heart is strong, you will be ready for the love of a good man. or you will be able to let a bad one go. good luck
I am a young aspiaring singer and want to get discovered. please give me any advice you have.?
Talent agencies. Do recordings and make demo CDs. Try to write your own music too. Also get a voice teacher if you don't already have one. And participate in school performances(if you're in school), choirs, and such.I am a young aspiaring singer and want to get discovered. please give me any advice you have.?
1. Get a professional teacher who can give you the proper techniques and studies .
2. Demos,Talent shows etc.....................
are nothing but a waste of money and time if you do not have the musical skills .
3. Record companies do not give contracts anymore that is a thing of the past .
4. Do not watch American Idol because 99% of the people who audition cannot sing .I am a young aspiaring singer and want to get discovered. please give me any advice you have.?
you should post videos of you singing songs on youtube, thats how alot of the singers today are famous, talent agencies watch them...=)
1. Get a professional teacher who can give you the proper techniques and studies .
2. Demos,Talent shows etc.....................
are nothing but a waste of money and time if you do not have the musical skills .
3. Record companies do not give contracts anymore that is a thing of the past .
4. Do not watch American Idol because 99% of the people who audition cannot sing .I am a young aspiaring singer and want to get discovered. please give me any advice you have.?
you should post videos of you singing songs on youtube, thats how alot of the singers today are famous, talent agencies watch them...=)
Photography advice what would you get?
If you had enough money spare to buy a Canon EOS 40D or a nikon d80 would you buy one of those or would you spend it on a new lens if you already had a nikon d40 and a canon eos 1000d ?Photography advice what would you get?
My recommendation would be to buy new lenses for versatility if you already have cameras. Then, later on, consider upgrading to a new camera when the quality is further advanced.Photography advice what would you get?
anything just not the 1000D (not particularly good quality)
If I already had the body I would buy a lens. Glass (lenses) last for decades. Bodies are disposable. With that said Canon and Nikon are head to head competitors. Both are going to have excellent bodies and lenses. It just comes down to preference.
New lens! :)
My recommendation would be to buy new lenses for versatility if you already have cameras. Then, later on, consider upgrading to a new camera when the quality is further advanced.Photography advice what would you get?
anything just not the 1000D (not particularly good quality)
If I already had the body I would buy a lens. Glass (lenses) last for decades. Bodies are disposable. With that said Canon and Nikon are head to head competitors. Both are going to have excellent bodies and lenses. It just comes down to preference.
New lens! :)
What would you do i need advice?
If your 20, and make 80k a year cash and already have $182,000 saved up would you still go to college?What would you do i need advice?
Yes, but I would take my time. You are making EXCELLENT money right now. So you can take your time and take a few classes here and there without stress. Plus, when you have a degree, you have something to fall back on. If you lost your 80K a year job, you might not even come close to finding something that pays you that well. This is what is happening to a lot of people even with degrees. They were making really great money, living very comfortable and then they lost their jobs and they are in a catch 22 situation. They can't find a job that pays them what they were use to making and other employers find that they are too over qualified and don't want to hire them because they can't pay them enough. Education is a good thing to have.What would you do i need advice?
I know that the right answer is ';Yes. A college education is the most valuable thing.'; As someone who is experiencing how difficult it is to go through college during a tough economy, I would recommend doing what feels right to do. An undergraduate degree is no longer a guarantee for a great job. It may or may not open up opportunities for the future. I think that the most valuable thing to do is to continue to work and save money as long as you can. If you are no longer getting anything out of college, then maybe it is time to stop for a while.
I started working in college and it lead me to network with great people that have agreed to pay for my education. I've also been contracted into a great job. That was just my personal experience and I am sure that it does not happen to everyone. The bottom line is, if you are smart enough and meet the right people, there are just as many opportunities out there (as long as you are not expecting to be a brain surgeon or a rocket scientist, of course).
I hope that my rambling was as least somewhat helpful.
Yes. So when I finish college, I'll even have more. =P
But if where you get that much money is for a lifetime.. then, no.:D
Depends on how you made your cash. What do you do?
I'm 19 years old, and i say yes. And education is a good thing to have. It adds credentials to anything you're doing.
Yes, but I would take my time. You are making EXCELLENT money right now. So you can take your time and take a few classes here and there without stress. Plus, when you have a degree, you have something to fall back on. If you lost your 80K a year job, you might not even come close to finding something that pays you that well. This is what is happening to a lot of people even with degrees. They were making really great money, living very comfortable and then they lost their jobs and they are in a catch 22 situation. They can't find a job that pays them what they were use to making and other employers find that they are too over qualified and don't want to hire them because they can't pay them enough. Education is a good thing to have.What would you do i need advice?
I know that the right answer is ';Yes. A college education is the most valuable thing.'; As someone who is experiencing how difficult it is to go through college during a tough economy, I would recommend doing what feels right to do. An undergraduate degree is no longer a guarantee for a great job. It may or may not open up opportunities for the future. I think that the most valuable thing to do is to continue to work and save money as long as you can. If you are no longer getting anything out of college, then maybe it is time to stop for a while.
I started working in college and it lead me to network with great people that have agreed to pay for my education. I've also been contracted into a great job. That was just my personal experience and I am sure that it does not happen to everyone. The bottom line is, if you are smart enough and meet the right people, there are just as many opportunities out there (as long as you are not expecting to be a brain surgeon or a rocket scientist, of course).
I hope that my rambling was as least somewhat helpful.
Yes. So when I finish college, I'll even have more. =P
But if where you get that much money is for a lifetime.. then, no.:D
Depends on how you made your cash. What do you do?
I'm 19 years old, and i say yes. And education is a good thing to have. It adds credentials to anything you're doing.
Please help. I am so nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am taking the Comprehensive Exam tomorrow morning. I have been studying for the test since Jan. I am already for the exam. However, I am so nervous. Please advice. Thank you.
A good night sleep would help alot. Although How can I get one? lol :)Please help. I am so nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
ok so this is the best addvice for any test:
take the whole day off!! and reeeeeeeeeeeeeelax, whenever you feel nervious do 25 jumping jacks to get your heartbeat up... and when you feel like you did enought lie down on your bed. Keep your mind on something else; like watch your favorite channel/tv show. Also being with friends works really good too. Invite a couple friends over or go to the mall. The best way to get a good night rest is to watch Tv (2 movies) until you start yawning; then if you need to just fall asleep on the couch and tell someone to wake you up so you can go to your own bed; that way you will go straight to bed without thinking of anything because you'll be too tired. Remember that you have studied and you will do fine.... Being nervous is not going to help you; your destiny wont change so stop killing yourself.Please help. I am so nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
No caffine before bed. Get in early to bed and do deep breathing exercises. You will be great tomorrow because you prepared for the test !!! Good Luck!
Drink some Chamomile Tea. It will help you to relax. You also might try some progressive relaxation techniques.
Find a comedy on tv and laugh. Before you go to bed go for a walk and clear your head. Set two alarm clocks. You will be fine.
I'll bet you dinner that you'll do great. If you win I'll take you to dinner.
If I win then you come to Toronto and buy me dinner. Deal?
P.S. We have 10 feet of snow so bring your snow shoes.
Do not drink any caffine, get a good night's sleep, have a good breakfast, and do a quick study b4 bed.
A good night sleep would help alot. Although How can I get one? lol :)Please help. I am so nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
ok so this is the best addvice for any test:
take the whole day off!! and reeeeeeeeeeeeeelax, whenever you feel nervious do 25 jumping jacks to get your heartbeat up... and when you feel like you did enought lie down on your bed. Keep your mind on something else; like watch your favorite channel/tv show. Also being with friends works really good too. Invite a couple friends over or go to the mall. The best way to get a good night rest is to watch Tv (2 movies) until you start yawning; then if you need to just fall asleep on the couch and tell someone to wake you up so you can go to your own bed; that way you will go straight to bed without thinking of anything because you'll be too tired. Remember that you have studied and you will do fine.... Being nervous is not going to help you; your destiny wont change so stop killing yourself.Please help. I am so nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
No caffine before bed. Get in early to bed and do deep breathing exercises. You will be great tomorrow because you prepared for the test !!! Good Luck!
Drink some Chamomile Tea. It will help you to relax. You also might try some progressive relaxation techniques.
Find a comedy on tv and laugh. Before you go to bed go for a walk and clear your head. Set two alarm clocks. You will be fine.
I'll bet you dinner that you'll do great. If you win I'll take you to dinner.
If I win then you come to Toronto and buy me dinner. Deal?
P.S. We have 10 feet of snow so bring your snow shoes.
Do not drink any caffine, get a good night's sleep, have a good breakfast, and do a quick study b4 bed.
If Jesus went into the future, what advice do you think he would give Obama?
';Make those happy you put their worldly trust in you.';If Jesus went into the future, what advice do you think he would give Obama?
It is a little embarrassing that, after forty-five years of research and study, the best advice I can give to people is to be a little kinder to each other.
Aldous Huxley (1894-1963)If Jesus went into the future, what advice do you think he would give Obama?
to tell obama hes ruining the usa and leave! and never return to the political gov
To continue doing what he is doing. Go Obama.
Change your ways. Stop lying and deceiving and mocking the Holy Bible. You can be forgiven...REPENT!!!!
He would advise Obama to receive Him in his heart.
I dont know, i never met Jesus before
It is a little embarrassing that, after forty-five years of research and study, the best advice I can give to people is to be a little kinder to each other.
Aldous Huxley (1894-1963)If Jesus went into the future, what advice do you think he would give Obama?
to tell obama hes ruining the usa and leave! and never return to the political gov
To continue doing what he is doing. Go Obama.
Change your ways. Stop lying and deceiving and mocking the Holy Bible. You can be forgiven...REPENT!!!!
He would advise Obama to receive Him in his heart.
I dont know, i never met Jesus before
What do you think please give me a piece of advice?
Hello everybody, I am Lina, I end up my relationship last monday. His friends and family are trying to make an agreement between us but i refused because, i made a requistion which says i will not continue the relationship unless he is sure of getting married as soon as we make an agreement and to make everything easy for me/concerning his behaviour/. What do you think?What do you think please give me a piece of advice?
okay this question is in visual arts so....
it's either about being boyfriend/girlfriend material, in which case I'd say you were right to end the relationship cuz you're not on the same page therefore will never fit in the same frame
or 'bout the visual aspect in the relationship being the problem, in which case I'd say real beauty comes from within but definitely shows on the outside if you have an artist's eye
or 'bout having artist block caused by personal problems, in which case I'd say you had good reasons to take this decision, now stick to it without thinking 'bout it right now and evaluate the situation in a fortnight
or this has nothing to do with art in which case you should post it elsewherehomemade mask
okay this question is in visual arts so....
it's either about being boyfriend/girlfriend material, in which case I'd say you were right to end the relationship cuz you're not on the same page therefore will never fit in the same frame
or 'bout the visual aspect in the relationship being the problem, in which case I'd say real beauty comes from within but definitely shows on the outside if you have an artist's eye
or 'bout having artist block caused by personal problems, in which case I'd say you had good reasons to take this decision, now stick to it without thinking 'bout it right now and evaluate the situation in a fortnight
or this has nothing to do with art in which case you should post it elsewhere
Could you advice me a good cotraceptive pills?
Whats suitable for one woman may not be for another and its often a case of trial and error till you find one that suits. Most are low hormone level now so minimal side effects and they are being improved constantly. You're best seeing family planning nurse,Could you advice me a good cotraceptive pills?
Go to you GP no one on here can tell you that as different pills suit different peopleCould you advice me a good cotraceptive pills?
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Go to you GP no one on here can tell you that as different pills suit different peopleCould you advice me a good cotraceptive pills?
sprintec birth control pills
As an adviser to a presidential candidate what advice would you give them on the u.s economic problems?
We need to fix cash flow. Get out of Iraq. Can the defense contract and invest in infrastructure. As an adviser to a presidential candidate what advice would you give them on the u.s economic problems?
Fire Congress!
(yes, obviously this can't be done but it did feel good)As an adviser to a presidential candidate what advice would you give them on the u.s economic problems?
CUT PORK KEEP TAXES LOW AND STOP SENDING @#%@#$^@$%^@$% JOBS OVERSEAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1.............鈥?AND WE HAVE ALOT OF ENERGY POTENTIAL IN THE NORTHERN HEMISPHERE LETS START UTILIZING IT LETS START DONT WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's like taking off a band-aid: make it quick, but painful to all the crooks.
Average the equity on hand to a 3 year average instead of a snapshot.
That would save half of the companies.
Offer low interest loans 2% to the rest. Don't give away any money.
Offer a $700 Billion dollar infrastructure package to put Americans to work.
Focus your energies on problems here at home. If not, we'll no longer be
a world power!
Tax the rich their fair share. Work toward becoming energy independent therefore creating more jobs. Stop jumping in expensive wars that we have no business in. Tax the heck out of companies that take American jobs overseas and rid Washington of lobbyists.
Fire Congress!
(yes, obviously this can't be done but it did feel good)As an adviser to a presidential candidate what advice would you give them on the u.s economic problems?
CUT PORK KEEP TAXES LOW AND STOP SENDING @#%@#$^@$%^@$% JOBS OVERSEAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1.............鈥?AND WE HAVE ALOT OF ENERGY POTENTIAL IN THE NORTHERN HEMISPHERE LETS START UTILIZING IT LETS START DONT WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's like taking off a band-aid: make it quick, but painful to all the crooks.
Average the equity on hand to a 3 year average instead of a snapshot.
That would save half of the companies.
Offer low interest loans 2% to the rest. Don't give away any money.
Offer a $700 Billion dollar infrastructure package to put Americans to work.
Focus your energies on problems here at home. If not, we'll no longer be
a world power!
Tax the rich their fair share. Work toward becoming energy independent therefore creating more jobs. Stop jumping in expensive wars that we have no business in. Tax the heck out of companies that take American jobs overseas and rid Washington of lobbyists.
Some of the best advice you can give?
just in general, about life?Some of the best advice you can give?
Ignoring a problem does not make it go away.
Pray about a problem for two weeks. After two weeks, is there still a problem? If there is you will have the answer. But usually the problem has resolved itself.
Most times it's best to keep your mouth shut, listen and smile, smile, smile!Some of the best advice you can give?
if you don't know where you came from, you can't tell where you're going.
When life sucks, just dance.
Ignoring a problem does not make it go away.
Pray about a problem for two weeks. After two weeks, is there still a problem? If there is you will have the answer. But usually the problem has resolved itself.
Most times it's best to keep your mouth shut, listen and smile, smile, smile!Some of the best advice you can give?
if you don't know where you came from, you can't tell where you're going.
When life sucks, just dance.
Can you give me some advice please?
I recently found an old phone number of my best friend from elementary, middle, and high school. Our families were very close. I dated her brother. We grew up together. I have been wanting to call it, because I know ti is still a good number, but the last time I spoke to her was in 1998. My family had to hide for a personal reason and we had to lose contact with a lot of people so i couldn't call her or anyone. So it's been 11 years. I really want to talk to her but, I don't know. Any suggestions?Can you give me some advice please?
do it. or you will ALWAYS regret itCan you give me some advice please?
Why not? 11 years is PLENTY of small talk, so even if you guys don't just fall to talking like it's old times, at least you will be able to ask each other about life/work during the past 11 years. A good friend will be able to forgive the slight awkwardness; it's nice to hear from old friends! You could exchange email addresses and then stay in touch a bit more -- or, if it seems too forced, then you can just let the friendship fade away again. Either way -- might as well pick up the phone!
I think you should go for it! I mean, yes it may be awkward at first considering you haven't talked for 11 years.. but it would be interesting to see where she ended up and to get together sometime to cath up.
do it. or you will ALWAYS regret itCan you give me some advice please?
Why not? 11 years is PLENTY of small talk, so even if you guys don't just fall to talking like it's old times, at least you will be able to ask each other about life/work during the past 11 years. A good friend will be able to forgive the slight awkwardness; it's nice to hear from old friends! You could exchange email addresses and then stay in touch a bit more -- or, if it seems too forced, then you can just let the friendship fade away again. Either way -- might as well pick up the phone!
I think you should go for it! I mean, yes it may be awkward at first considering you haven't talked for 11 years.. but it would be interesting to see where she ended up and to get together sometime to cath up.
I am a guy with an oily face. What do you advice me because I have a sweathy face.?
Wash it often with a wash made for oily skin. Get some of the individually wrapped Stridex wipes and carry in your pocket for use throughout the day whenever needed.I am a guy with an oily face. What do you advice me because I have a sweathy face.?
i say you should regularly wash your face with soap take it from me i have and oily face
i say you should regularly wash your face with soap take it from me i have and oily face
Is this a good strategy for an essay exam. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I had an old test questions from my friends. I tried to answer those questions without looking at the notes. I am very confident about my answers..
I think I will do good tomorrow..
Wish me luck everybody! :)Is this a good strategy for an essay exam. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Look you know your stuff. Go out and relax for a couple of minutes. If your really nervous your not confident.
In a tense situation, if you know your stuff it will come out when needed. Its good to answer a couple of practice questions but too much practice is as bad as not enough.
Take a walk. Breath
You don't need luck. Depend on your knowledge not luck.Is this a good strategy for an essay exam. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
just relax and focus u will do wonderfulhomemade mask
I think I will do good tomorrow..
Wish me luck everybody! :)Is this a good strategy for an essay exam. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Look you know your stuff. Go out and relax for a couple of minutes. If your really nervous your not confident.
In a tense situation, if you know your stuff it will come out when needed. Its good to answer a couple of practice questions but too much practice is as bad as not enough.
Take a walk. Breath
You don't need luck. Depend on your knowledge not luck.Is this a good strategy for an essay exam. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
just relax and focus u will do wonderful
Easy Question for Girls - Do you have any Fashion/Beauty Tips or Advice?
I'm going to make a Fashion and Beauty Guide for myself as I think it's a good idea and would be helpful.
Please don't hesitate to post your tips/advice or links to websites.
I am fed up of asking questions and not getting relevant answers, so any irrelevant answers shall be reported.Easy Question for Girls - Do you have any Fashion/Beauty Tips or Advice?
-if i have a blemish, crush up an aspirin, mix it with a little honey to make a paste and apply to pimple for 10 minutes.
-apply shimmer to top of cheekbones, cupid's bow on mouth, and edge of brows to look brighter
-if you want to brighten eyes, put subtle white eyeliner on lower inner corner of eyes
-use a brush when applying foundation, it makes it more evenEasy Question for Girls - Do you have any Fashion/Beauty Tips or Advice?
- When I wash my hair, I use shampoo, then shampoo/conditioner (2-in-1), then conditioner (not all at once!). I rinse it out with cold water.
1. To protect my eyelashes from falling off, I put a little natural powder on them before I put on two layers of mascara on them. And they'll look thicker!
2. For more reddish/pinkish lips, I brush my lips with a soft (EXTRA SOFT) brush to remove the dead skin and make them more plump.
3. If I have a greasy hair day, and I have no time to shower it, I put on some powder on it. But, I make sure I remove the white color. I have black hair, so having white powder on my head, would just be weird.
4. Never, and I mean NEVER, use lemon juice or toothpaste on pimples. Unless you would like to get hurt.
5. If my shoes fits my toes, but not my by my heel side, I slip in cotton for support. SSSCH. :)
6. Hmm... what else do I have? Red pants go well with black shirt.
http://www.beautyandfashionadvice.com/
http://styletips101.com/
http://www.seventeen.com/hair-skin-makeu鈥?/a>
Please don't hesitate to post your tips/advice or links to websites.
I am fed up of asking questions and not getting relevant answers, so any irrelevant answers shall be reported.Easy Question for Girls - Do you have any Fashion/Beauty Tips or Advice?
-if i have a blemish, crush up an aspirin, mix it with a little honey to make a paste and apply to pimple for 10 minutes.
-apply shimmer to top of cheekbones, cupid's bow on mouth, and edge of brows to look brighter
-if you want to brighten eyes, put subtle white eyeliner on lower inner corner of eyes
-use a brush when applying foundation, it makes it more evenEasy Question for Girls - Do you have any Fashion/Beauty Tips or Advice?
- When I wash my hair, I use shampoo, then shampoo/conditioner (2-in-1), then conditioner (not all at once!). I rinse it out with cold water.
1. To protect my eyelashes from falling off, I put a little natural powder on them before I put on two layers of mascara on them. And they'll look thicker!
2. For more reddish/pinkish lips, I brush my lips with a soft (EXTRA SOFT) brush to remove the dead skin and make them more plump.
3. If I have a greasy hair day, and I have no time to shower it, I put on some powder on it. But, I make sure I remove the white color. I have black hair, so having white powder on my head, would just be weird.
4. Never, and I mean NEVER, use lemon juice or toothpaste on pimples. Unless you would like to get hurt.
5. If my shoes fits my toes, but not my by my heel side, I slip in cotton for support. SSSCH. :)
6. Hmm... what else do I have? Red pants go well with black shirt.
http://www.beautyandfashionadvice.com/
http://styletips101.com/
http://www.seventeen.com/hair-skin-makeu鈥?/a>
What advice can you give about a third wheel?
the situation is this,
My girlfriend has a close friend that always hangs out with the two of us since her friend does not have many friends. Now, in a stat in fb, her friend posted, ';I hate being the third wheel, why can't you understand how I feel?';. what should we do with her? she's the close friend of my gf, and it's hard to leave her friend just like that? any advice? it would be appreciated.. :)What advice can you give about a third wheel?
i am the ';third wheel'; with my besty just make the friend feel welcome to hang with y'all and give her attention (not enough 2 make your gf think u like the other girl) like get a inside joke or something or a cool hand shake(i no it sounds cheesy but it actually entertains me alot lol) or one day you invite the friend out 1st so she dosent feel like a burdon on y'all going out. try to befriend her so she feels comfortable around her or just leave her home
My girlfriend has a close friend that always hangs out with the two of us since her friend does not have many friends. Now, in a stat in fb, her friend posted, ';I hate being the third wheel, why can't you understand how I feel?';. what should we do with her? she's the close friend of my gf, and it's hard to leave her friend just like that? any advice? it would be appreciated.. :)What advice can you give about a third wheel?
i am the ';third wheel'; with my besty just make the friend feel welcome to hang with y'all and give her attention (not enough 2 make your gf think u like the other girl) like get a inside joke or something or a cool hand shake(i no it sounds cheesy but it actually entertains me alot lol) or one day you invite the friend out 1st so she dosent feel like a burdon on y'all going out. try to befriend her so she feels comfortable around her or just leave her home
Who would you seek advice from if you had a grievance at work?
My immediate supervisor. I don't work for people I can't talk to.
Your situation? We don't know it so we can't advise you.
Your situation? We don't know it so we can't advise you.
Who would you seek advice from if you had a grievance at work?
My immediate supervisor. I don't work for people I can't talk to.
Your situation? We don't know it so we can't advise you.
Your situation? We don't know it so we can't advise you.
Can you give me an tips advice regarding my Warhammer miniature?
Here he is. Well, it's actually a hermaphrodite due to it being Slaanesh.
http://www.coolminiornot.com/181479Can you give me an tips advice regarding my Warhammer miniature?
Given that the model in the link given was sold almost a year ago, would it be too much of a stretch to suggest that, perhaps, this isn't actually *your* work?
FWIW, I'd have rated the model a ';9'; on the CMON scale. I tend to reserve 10s for models with extensive conversion work or which are sculpted from scratch to a professional standard.
The work in the link below isn't as good as Arjay's stuff, but it is mine.Can you give me an tips advice regarding my Warhammer miniature?
Show-off! ;-)
http://www.coolminiornot.com/181479Can you give me an tips advice regarding my Warhammer miniature?
Given that the model in the link given was sold almost a year ago, would it be too much of a stretch to suggest that, perhaps, this isn't actually *your* work?
FWIW, I'd have rated the model a ';9'; on the CMON scale. I tend to reserve 10s for models with extensive conversion work or which are sculpted from scratch to a professional standard.
The work in the link below isn't as good as Arjay's stuff, but it is mine.Can you give me an tips advice regarding my Warhammer miniature?
Show-off! ;-)
Do you noe of a good, free veterinarian advice website?
my bunny is sick and i dont exactly have the money to take her in, but if its serious i will. and i wanted to noe of site/s that i can tell about her situation and get help on what i should do. like an online vet but for free cause many you have to pay for. plzz and thank you.Do you noe of a good, free veterinarian advice website?
Lots of sites online will give you free advice on what COULD be wrong, but only a real life vet examining your rabbit in real life can tell you what IS wrong and give you prescriptions and information on how to help- take her to a damn vet. A rabbit is the same finanical commitment as a dog or cat- just because they live in a cage doesn't mean they deserve to be left sick and in discomfort. If you can't afford it, give it to a shelter.homemade mask
Lots of sites online will give you free advice on what COULD be wrong, but only a real life vet examining your rabbit in real life can tell you what IS wrong and give you prescriptions and information on how to help- take her to a damn vet. A rabbit is the same finanical commitment as a dog or cat- just because they live in a cage doesn't mean they deserve to be left sick and in discomfort. If you can't afford it, give it to a shelter.
When might you go to the internet for advice rather than asking your friends or family?
To be honest I always go to the internet first for advice. As crazy as it may seem I always seem to get a varied range of answers that really make me think, also people on the internet do not know you personally so they don't judge you. I find family and friends have that extra judging and highground attitude when giving you advice - they can also be a bit biased with you or harsh with you. Whereas online it is always neutral, and if you are going online to read advice then you are just informing yourself. I am a bit of a drama queen and find I have problems ';a lot'; lol and I find the internet good for moaning and reading about issues etc rather than annoying and nagging my friends or family.When might you go to the internet for advice rather than asking your friends or family?
I think you'd rathger ask strangerrs about certain things because it might alianate people you know.
When might you go to the internet for advice rather than asking your friends or family?
Sometimes, you might find that the question you want an answer to,is a bit difficult to ask people you know directly; either because it's embarrassing, or because it sounds silly, although you want an answer to them, or because you think that being close to you, they won't dare being honest with you.
Also, on the internet, there are a wide range of opinions there; and surely, you'd feel safer to go with the majority, as the majority is usually right.
Internet gives you anonymity and although it can be pretty hurtful to be judged by people who don't know you, you feel less of an idiot for not being exposed to the ones who know you and can be horrible to you to your face.
I always go to the internet for advice because of the fact that I can't talk to other people about stuff. Its just not me. I hate how everyone seems to think that everyone else should be able to talk to people about stuff, because its like, some people just are not like that and its not fair to expect them to be. Other reasons are basically that its anonymous. The internet people don't know who you are, they know nothing about you and they can't already have judgements on you. They take the situation for what it is. This can also be a problem too though seen as they don't know what kind of person you are so they may not know what kind of advice to give you, but its normally not that way..
No one knows who you are here. Thats basically why I go here.
when its something that can be sorted whn you don;t want your family to know or when you feel that it will make it worse by telling family. For instance, self harm, a lot of people prefer to go to the interenet to get suppot and advice becasue they can get help from people who may have gone through tha same thing as they did. There is another reason, to get help fom people who may hvae gone through the same things as you. O maybe you don't feel you can trust your friends and family and do not feel that they will take your problems seriously.
Some ';SITES'; only offer help to people under 25 years of age...!
Some people don't want family to know their personal and private business. So seeking the advice of neutral parties on the internet would retain a certain element of dignity and anonymity.
Friends and family are more likely to give you ';advice'; based on their knowledge of you.. .they are inclined to give you the answers you might want to hear.
On sites like this one, our questions are met with varied responses based on ';hands on'; experience. We all know we aren't to take anyone's advice as the ';be all and end all'; effective remedy. .. in the end it's up to us to ascertain a feasible and logical approach to our dilemma's, based on the cumulative and diverse recommendations made by others.
I would do this if I was certain that non of my family friends or relatives knew the answer, or when I wanted a totally unbiased opinion on the question.
Sometimes family and friends can be too ' involved ' to offer help and advise that would be practical and or useful, or may even have an agenda of their own which means that the advice offered may not be the best, quite simply because it would compromise their own position or situation.
Fortunately, I have only found myself in this position twice, and on both occasions received helpful advice that could be used then, and also stored to pass on to othe Y.A. members who asked similar questions.
Mike t.
For a start it's easier to type out my feelings rather than trying to explain them.
As well it doesn't matter who sees your question or your feelings on the internet, no-one will ever know who you are so you can be honest and you don't have to be embarassed.
If things don't go how you expect in front of your friends and family it isn't something you just forget, you'll be reminded of it. And there's some things you just don't want people knowing about you, no matter who they are.
I always go to friends first for advice, the internet second, and family as a last resort.
Friends are obviously more supportive than the internet ever could be, but the internet has much more information and you can be anonymous.
I use the internet for topics that i feel too embarrassed to bring up with family or friends, or for advice i know they wont be able to give me!
When I don't want to name names.
If its an issue concerning someone I work with, for example, and I don't want one of my friends or colleagues to ask or try to guess who I'm refferring to, I will turn to a community site for advice so that I can just say ';I'm having concerns about someone I know'; and the people contributing don't have to judge or worry about who I'm talking about, they can just advise me based on their own experiences.
If I start it up with someone I know in person, then there's a chance it might backfire or erupt into an even more complicated issue, so I use sites like this to avoid unneccessary complications.
Sometimes asking family and friends can bring an answer that is biased. Because family members and friends know you, their answers may not be as honest as you would like. Posting your question on a site such as this gives you the opportunity of looking at a range of answers. But do be careful as some people have an axe to grind and sometimes an answer can be so hurtful.
i go to the net for all kinds of problems or questions! not so much for advice as such but it can be a good way to see how other people have dealt with certain situations, or give you a difference perspective to look at things. talking to your friends and family about your problems is good, but on the net you can search for how people who have been or are going through the same thing as you feel, or have dealt with things. Good Luck!
I am a private person, so when I have a marital problem, I never violate the sanctity of my marriage by talking about my problems with my family or friends. I never want my family or friends to ';dislike'; or lose respect for my husband based on what I may say in ';the heat of the moment';.....hurt and anger and frustration seem to make us over exaggerate a problem and then our friends and family choose sides that they should never have to choose.
And ';telling'; on my husband, is not allowing him to share his side of the issue.....and that is unfair and diesrespectful.
So it is easier to ask faceless strangers about a problem to obtain an objective answer or advice.
When i want to be unknown but most of the times,i look for help on the internet rather than my family and friends cause my family are always out and hardly ever see them.Friends because i dont trust people.I once do,however,the trust for everybody was broken when one of my friends shared my problems(secrets,rather) with everybody.
People on the net doesnt know you,they cant judge you.
As many people already mentioned, confiding in perfect strangers help you to get an objective solution. They are not personally involved in the situation and can therefore think straight - something that family and friends can't do because they know you.
There can be some judgemental characters on your internet sites but more often than not people are genuinely helpful.
I agree with the first answer, when you want to be anonymous. I was dealing with some stuff that I knew I couldn't share with my husband and I confided in one friend and she just blew it off and acted like I just needed to stop my behavior...she gave me no advice. I found myself, actually, at this site and just put it out there. I could say exactly what I was going through and what I was feeling. I got good honest answers from people that didn't know me. And it helped, it helped me alot. I feel alot better and am thankful that I had the internet as an outlet.
There are many reasons.
One could be that it is about them! Either in something they do or how they might react to something I did.
Other things might be on something that I know they will know nothing about, such as advice on a bit of homework.
And of course, the other reason is just to get the advice from an impartial source.
Because family tend to judge you and share your worries/secrets with whoever they live with which ain't fair. Some people tend to think they have to share everything with their partners even if it's about someone else which is wrong. Here people may judge you but you don't know each other and will never so they just judge once and forget about it and move on to the next question
xx
so you can choose to be anonymous.
so that you can get a better understanding of a situation that you might be being biased about so that you dont hurt someone you care about by not understanding.
so that other people who search online for something similar can use the answers to your questions to help them
theres soo many reasons...
when you don't want anyone to know who you are...
when you are too embarrassed to ask friends or family...
when friends and family don't understand or won't understand...
when you don't have friends or family to ask...
Its easier to talk to people on the internet coz they don't know you so they can't judge you...
some questions a person can't ask he/her parents about and so he/she can go to the internte for help, but what the person should remember that the people replying are just random people form all over the world and so before choosing the 'best' advice they should evaluate it first.
i always doo, its a lot easier talking to people you dont know , and a lot less awkward too. alsso, when it's something you'd be embarassed to tell people you know or even, you just want to find someone that understands what you're getting at
or you want a range of answers
etc. :]
When you want the opinion of someone who isn't biased, who doesn't know you so they don't mind 'hurting' your feelings, who take the time and explain, they dont know you so they cannot judge it from your character, and mostly because they give their honest opinion. When people who we know will just tell us what we want to hear.
That's why.
:) x
you might be embarressed or uncomfortable talking about your problem theres a certain anominity on the internet so people might be more comfortable talking about it plus online theres a chance a professional in whatever field reads your problem and helps you with it or someone whos had the same problem could read it and help
If it's a matter of a 'personal' nature, I'd much rather ask people on the internet anonymously, than face people I know. I'd rather not have the people I know judge me and think any worse of me by asking for such advice.
sometimes it is so good to scream at the computer screen when you don't get the answers you want. Or shut up suddenly because of the answers you do get. It doesn't matter what you ask someone somewhere will have an opinion. Maybe it is nice to be lonely but ...not alone.
Hey bud,
Anonymity, and for a totally unbiased view-point, also a view beyond those of people who may be involved directly or indirectly, or if I wanted as broader view as possible relative to a question.
thanks for your question and take care.
if this question is embarrassing and personal ,if its a question that can't be answered by family , friends . sometimes it helps speaking to somebody that u don't have a relationship with i think this way can really help
When it's about people i know. rumors spread pretty fast and i wouldn't want my friends and family getting the wrong idea about certain questions i have. Plus, people on here don't really judge all that much. We are all here for the same reason; we need help.
When you hear the same type of advice all the time, and you need someone else's input. Someone not from the inside, and not someone who already has your own personal opinions on the subject to influence their answer.
When you want someone's opinion who isn't involved in the situation, so that the advice is impartial. It can give you a different view point on the situation without upsetting or offending anyone.
easier you ask everybody that you don't know.
but i better ask for advices to the family, then you could find a solution for the problems.
I think you'd rathger ask strangerrs about certain things because it might alianate people you know.
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When might you go to the internet for advice rather than asking your friends or family?
Sometimes, you might find that the question you want an answer to,is a bit difficult to ask people you know directly; either because it's embarrassing, or because it sounds silly, although you want an answer to them, or because you think that being close to you, they won't dare being honest with you.
Also, on the internet, there are a wide range of opinions there; and surely, you'd feel safer to go with the majority, as the majority is usually right.
Internet gives you anonymity and although it can be pretty hurtful to be judged by people who don't know you, you feel less of an idiot for not being exposed to the ones who know you and can be horrible to you to your face.
I always go to the internet for advice because of the fact that I can't talk to other people about stuff. Its just not me. I hate how everyone seems to think that everyone else should be able to talk to people about stuff, because its like, some people just are not like that and its not fair to expect them to be. Other reasons are basically that its anonymous. The internet people don't know who you are, they know nothing about you and they can't already have judgements on you. They take the situation for what it is. This can also be a problem too though seen as they don't know what kind of person you are so they may not know what kind of advice to give you, but its normally not that way..
No one knows who you are here. Thats basically why I go here.
when its something that can be sorted whn you don;t want your family to know or when you feel that it will make it worse by telling family. For instance, self harm, a lot of people prefer to go to the interenet to get suppot and advice becasue they can get help from people who may have gone through tha same thing as they did. There is another reason, to get help fom people who may hvae gone through the same things as you. O maybe you don't feel you can trust your friends and family and do not feel that they will take your problems seriously.
Some ';SITES'; only offer help to people under 25 years of age...!
Some people don't want family to know their personal and private business. So seeking the advice of neutral parties on the internet would retain a certain element of dignity and anonymity.
Friends and family are more likely to give you ';advice'; based on their knowledge of you.. .they are inclined to give you the answers you might want to hear.
On sites like this one, our questions are met with varied responses based on ';hands on'; experience. We all know we aren't to take anyone's advice as the ';be all and end all'; effective remedy. .. in the end it's up to us to ascertain a feasible and logical approach to our dilemma's, based on the cumulative and diverse recommendations made by others.
I would do this if I was certain that non of my family friends or relatives knew the answer, or when I wanted a totally unbiased opinion on the question.
Sometimes family and friends can be too ' involved ' to offer help and advise that would be practical and or useful, or may even have an agenda of their own which means that the advice offered may not be the best, quite simply because it would compromise their own position or situation.
Fortunately, I have only found myself in this position twice, and on both occasions received helpful advice that could be used then, and also stored to pass on to othe Y.A. members who asked similar questions.
Mike t.
For a start it's easier to type out my feelings rather than trying to explain them.
As well it doesn't matter who sees your question or your feelings on the internet, no-one will ever know who you are so you can be honest and you don't have to be embarassed.
If things don't go how you expect in front of your friends and family it isn't something you just forget, you'll be reminded of it. And there's some things you just don't want people knowing about you, no matter who they are.
I always go to friends first for advice, the internet second, and family as a last resort.
Friends are obviously more supportive than the internet ever could be, but the internet has much more information and you can be anonymous.
I use the internet for topics that i feel too embarrassed to bring up with family or friends, or for advice i know they wont be able to give me!
When I don't want to name names.
If its an issue concerning someone I work with, for example, and I don't want one of my friends or colleagues to ask or try to guess who I'm refferring to, I will turn to a community site for advice so that I can just say ';I'm having concerns about someone I know'; and the people contributing don't have to judge or worry about who I'm talking about, they can just advise me based on their own experiences.
If I start it up with someone I know in person, then there's a chance it might backfire or erupt into an even more complicated issue, so I use sites like this to avoid unneccessary complications.
Sometimes asking family and friends can bring an answer that is biased. Because family members and friends know you, their answers may not be as honest as you would like. Posting your question on a site such as this gives you the opportunity of looking at a range of answers. But do be careful as some people have an axe to grind and sometimes an answer can be so hurtful.
i go to the net for all kinds of problems or questions! not so much for advice as such but it can be a good way to see how other people have dealt with certain situations, or give you a difference perspective to look at things. talking to your friends and family about your problems is good, but on the net you can search for how people who have been or are going through the same thing as you feel, or have dealt with things. Good Luck!
I am a private person, so when I have a marital problem, I never violate the sanctity of my marriage by talking about my problems with my family or friends. I never want my family or friends to ';dislike'; or lose respect for my husband based on what I may say in ';the heat of the moment';.....hurt and anger and frustration seem to make us over exaggerate a problem and then our friends and family choose sides that they should never have to choose.
And ';telling'; on my husband, is not allowing him to share his side of the issue.....and that is unfair and diesrespectful.
So it is easier to ask faceless strangers about a problem to obtain an objective answer or advice.
When i want to be unknown but most of the times,i look for help on the internet rather than my family and friends cause my family are always out and hardly ever see them.Friends because i dont trust people.I once do,however,the trust for everybody was broken when one of my friends shared my problems(secrets,rather) with everybody.
People on the net doesnt know you,they cant judge you.
As many people already mentioned, confiding in perfect strangers help you to get an objective solution. They are not personally involved in the situation and can therefore think straight - something that family and friends can't do because they know you.
There can be some judgemental characters on your internet sites but more often than not people are genuinely helpful.
I agree with the first answer, when you want to be anonymous. I was dealing with some stuff that I knew I couldn't share with my husband and I confided in one friend and she just blew it off and acted like I just needed to stop my behavior...she gave me no advice. I found myself, actually, at this site and just put it out there. I could say exactly what I was going through and what I was feeling. I got good honest answers from people that didn't know me. And it helped, it helped me alot. I feel alot better and am thankful that I had the internet as an outlet.
There are many reasons.
One could be that it is about them! Either in something they do or how they might react to something I did.
Other things might be on something that I know they will know nothing about, such as advice on a bit of homework.
And of course, the other reason is just to get the advice from an impartial source.
Because family tend to judge you and share your worries/secrets with whoever they live with which ain't fair. Some people tend to think they have to share everything with their partners even if it's about someone else which is wrong. Here people may judge you but you don't know each other and will never so they just judge once and forget about it and move on to the next question
xx
so you can choose to be anonymous.
so that you can get a better understanding of a situation that you might be being biased about so that you dont hurt someone you care about by not understanding.
so that other people who search online for something similar can use the answers to your questions to help them
theres soo many reasons...
when you don't want anyone to know who you are...
when you are too embarrassed to ask friends or family...
when friends and family don't understand or won't understand...
when you don't have friends or family to ask...
Its easier to talk to people on the internet coz they don't know you so they can't judge you...
some questions a person can't ask he/her parents about and so he/she can go to the internte for help, but what the person should remember that the people replying are just random people form all over the world and so before choosing the 'best' advice they should evaluate it first.
i always doo, its a lot easier talking to people you dont know , and a lot less awkward too. alsso, when it's something you'd be embarassed to tell people you know or even, you just want to find someone that understands what you're getting at
or you want a range of answers
etc. :]
When you want the opinion of someone who isn't biased, who doesn't know you so they don't mind 'hurting' your feelings, who take the time and explain, they dont know you so they cannot judge it from your character, and mostly because they give their honest opinion. When people who we know will just tell us what we want to hear.
That's why.
:) x
you might be embarressed or uncomfortable talking about your problem theres a certain anominity on the internet so people might be more comfortable talking about it plus online theres a chance a professional in whatever field reads your problem and helps you with it or someone whos had the same problem could read it and help
If it's a matter of a 'personal' nature, I'd much rather ask people on the internet anonymously, than face people I know. I'd rather not have the people I know judge me and think any worse of me by asking for such advice.
sometimes it is so good to scream at the computer screen when you don't get the answers you want. Or shut up suddenly because of the answers you do get. It doesn't matter what you ask someone somewhere will have an opinion. Maybe it is nice to be lonely but ...not alone.
Hey bud,
Anonymity, and for a totally unbiased view-point, also a view beyond those of people who may be involved directly or indirectly, or if I wanted as broader view as possible relative to a question.
thanks for your question and take care.
if this question is embarrassing and personal ,if its a question that can't be answered by family , friends . sometimes it helps speaking to somebody that u don't have a relationship with i think this way can really help
When it's about people i know. rumors spread pretty fast and i wouldn't want my friends and family getting the wrong idea about certain questions i have. Plus, people on here don't really judge all that much. We are all here for the same reason; we need help.
When you hear the same type of advice all the time, and you need someone else's input. Someone not from the inside, and not someone who already has your own personal opinions on the subject to influence their answer.
When you want someone's opinion who isn't involved in the situation, so that the advice is impartial. It can give you a different view point on the situation without upsetting or offending anyone.
easier you ask everybody that you don't know.
but i better ask for advices to the family, then you could find a solution for the problems.
What advice can you give about a third wheel?
the situation is this,
My girlfriend has a close friend that always hangs out with the two of us since her friend does not have many friends. Now, in a stat in fb, her friend posted, ';I hate being the third wheel, why can't you understand how I feel?';. what should we do with her? she's the close friend of my gf, and it's hard to leave her friend just like that? any advice? it would be appreciated.. :)What advice can you give about a third wheel?
i am the ';third wheel'; with my besty just make the friend feel welcome to hang with y'all and give her attention (not enough 2 make your gf think u like the other girl) like get a inside joke or something or a cool hand shake(i no it sounds cheesy but it actually entertains me alot lol) or one day you invite the friend out 1st so she dosent feel like a burdon on y'all going out. try to befriend her so she feels comfortable around her or just leave her home
My girlfriend has a close friend that always hangs out with the two of us since her friend does not have many friends. Now, in a stat in fb, her friend posted, ';I hate being the third wheel, why can't you understand how I feel?';. what should we do with her? she's the close friend of my gf, and it's hard to leave her friend just like that? any advice? it would be appreciated.. :)What advice can you give about a third wheel?
i am the ';third wheel'; with my besty just make the friend feel welcome to hang with y'all and give her attention (not enough 2 make your gf think u like the other girl) like get a inside joke or something or a cool hand shake(i no it sounds cheesy but it actually entertains me alot lol) or one day you invite the friend out 1st so she dosent feel like a burdon on y'all going out. try to befriend her so she feels comfortable around her or just leave her home
Who would you seek advice from if you had a grievance at work?
My immediate supervisor. I don't work for people I can't talk to.
Your situation? We don't know it so we can't advise you.
Your situation? We don't know it so we can't advise you.
To people with straight a's or a very high GPA - can you please give me some advice?
I'm a constant some A's mostly B's and even some C's high school freshman. I want to make that next leap in my academics. Can you please give me some tips?To people with straight a's or a very high GPA - can you please give me some advice?
What I do is stay organized and focused. Organization is key. Staying organized reduces stress. Freshman year was my hardest in high school. Stay focused in class and know what you have to do. Pay attention in class and study hard. Do all homework and know what your doing. If you don't get help (tutor, teacher, etc.)To people with straight a's or a very high GPA - can you please give me some advice?
The only thing you can do is pay attention, take good notes, do all of the work, and study.
i used to be ';average'; the way i pulled myself up was by simply by doing the following:
1. asked helped when i needed it
2. stayed after school
3.studied for tests
4. tried to work with kids who were smarter than me
5. knew my capabilities ( as in taking a class i know i can do)
now im a senior with a 3.7 GPA and am 21/381 in class rank
read the assigned chapters, study hard for tests, manage your time. Remember you are in highschool only once so enjoy your time.
do all your homework, dont copy people, study 10 minutes for each class you have everynight, get 8 hours of sleep.
Always do extra.
Always ask if there is extra credit. Any projects/papers you have do extra/go above and beyond what is expected.
If you dont understand somthing stay after and ask questions or somehow find the answer.
Participate in class as much as possible. Some teachers give you a participation grade..that would help bump up your grade a bit.
Hope it helps! =DD
Good Luck!
Before a test I like to write on note card and try to memorize answers then when you know something you can take card out of stack and study the rest till you know it all.
practice practice practice for math classes
';good,better,best
never let them rest,
until the good is better,
and the better is the best';
lol... this won't be helpful but i got straight a's and I never studied once... i had 'homework lunch' almost every day. lol
to get a 4.0 you have to like cheat jkjk even though that helps a lot
study for tests and have your parents or the back of the book check your homework.
pay attention in class, do ur homework, study lots, and just keep trying:)
memorize learn to do this.
(dont listion to me i flopped collage) but run my own business now Woot!
be a good note taker. hand write notes in class, then go home and type them up. the repetition will keep it in your mind longer.
all you have to do is study. if are getting c's u obviously are not studying as much as you could. u can get more sleep. also dont procrastinate. if you get your work done ahead of time you will do better
there is nothing better than rereading your subject material and highlighting...even better take notes..you less apt to forget something you wrote down yourself.
What I do is stay organized and focused. Organization is key. Staying organized reduces stress. Freshman year was my hardest in high school. Stay focused in class and know what you have to do. Pay attention in class and study hard. Do all homework and know what your doing. If you don't get help (tutor, teacher, etc.)To people with straight a's or a very high GPA - can you please give me some advice?
The only thing you can do is pay attention, take good notes, do all of the work, and study.
i used to be ';average'; the way i pulled myself up was by simply by doing the following:
1. asked helped when i needed it
2. stayed after school
3.studied for tests
4. tried to work with kids who were smarter than me
5. knew my capabilities ( as in taking a class i know i can do)
now im a senior with a 3.7 GPA and am 21/381 in class rank
read the assigned chapters, study hard for tests, manage your time. Remember you are in highschool only once so enjoy your time.
do all your homework, dont copy people, study 10 minutes for each class you have everynight, get 8 hours of sleep.
Always do extra.
Always ask if there is extra credit. Any projects/papers you have do extra/go above and beyond what is expected.
If you dont understand somthing stay after and ask questions or somehow find the answer.
Participate in class as much as possible. Some teachers give you a participation grade..that would help bump up your grade a bit.
Hope it helps! =DD
Good Luck!
Before a test I like to write on note card and try to memorize answers then when you know something you can take card out of stack and study the rest till you know it all.
practice practice practice for math classes
';good,better,best
never let them rest,
until the good is better,
and the better is the best';
lol... this won't be helpful but i got straight a's and I never studied once... i had 'homework lunch' almost every day. lol
to get a 4.0 you have to like cheat jkjk even though that helps a lot
study for tests and have your parents or the back of the book check your homework.
pay attention in class, do ur homework, study lots, and just keep trying:)
memorize learn to do this.
(dont listion to me i flopped collage) but run my own business now Woot!
be a good note taker. hand write notes in class, then go home and type them up. the repetition will keep it in your mind longer.
all you have to do is study. if are getting c's u obviously are not studying as much as you could. u can get more sleep. also dont procrastinate. if you get your work done ahead of time you will do better
there is nothing better than rereading your subject material and highlighting...even better take notes..you less apt to forget something you wrote down yourself.
When might you go to the internet for advice rather than asking your friends or family?
To be honest I always go to the internet first for advice. As crazy as it may seem I always seem to get a varied range of answers that really make me think, also people on the internet do not know you personally so they don't judge you. I find family and friends have that extra judging and highground attitude when giving you advice - they can also be a bit biased with you or harsh with you. Whereas online it is always neutral, and if you are going online to read advice then you are just informing yourself. I am a bit of a drama queen and find I have problems ';a lot'; lol and I find the internet good for moaning and reading about issues etc rather than annoying and nagging my friends or family.When might you go to the internet for advice rather than asking your friends or family?
I think you'd rathger ask strangerrs about certain things because it might alianate people you know.
When might you go to the internet for advice rather than asking your friends or family?
Sometimes, you might find that the question you want an answer to,is a bit difficult to ask people you know directly; either because it's embarrassing, or because it sounds silly, although you want an answer to them, or because you think that being close to you, they won't dare being honest with you.
Also, on the internet, there are a wide range of opinions there; and surely, you'd feel safer to go with the majority, as the majority is usually right.
Internet gives you anonymity and although it can be pretty hurtful to be judged by people who don't know you, you feel less of an idiot for not being exposed to the ones who know you and can be horrible to you to your face.
I always go to the internet for advice because of the fact that I can't talk to other people about stuff. Its just not me. I hate how everyone seems to think that everyone else should be able to talk to people about stuff, because its like, some people just are not like that and its not fair to expect them to be. Other reasons are basically that its anonymous. The internet people don't know who you are, they know nothing about you and they can't already have judgements on you. They take the situation for what it is. This can also be a problem too though seen as they don't know what kind of person you are so they may not know what kind of advice to give you, but its normally not that way..
No one knows who you are here. Thats basically why I go here.
when its something that can be sorted whn you don;t want your family to know or when you feel that it will make it worse by telling family. For instance, self harm, a lot of people prefer to go to the interenet to get suppot and advice becasue they can get help from people who may have gone through tha same thing as they did. There is another reason, to get help fom people who may hvae gone through the same things as you. O maybe you don't feel you can trust your friends and family and do not feel that they will take your problems seriously.
Some ';SITES'; only offer help to people under 25 years of age...!
Some people don't want family to know their personal and private business. So seeking the advice of neutral parties on the internet would retain a certain element of dignity and anonymity.
Friends and family are more likely to give you ';advice'; based on their knowledge of you.. .they are inclined to give you the answers you might want to hear.
On sites like this one, our questions are met with varied responses based on ';hands on'; experience. We all know we aren't to take anyone's advice as the ';be all and end all'; effective remedy. .. in the end it's up to us to ascertain a feasible and logical approach to our dilemma's, based on the cumulative and diverse recommendations made by others.
I would do this if I was certain that non of my family friends or relatives knew the answer, or when I wanted a totally unbiased opinion on the question.
Sometimes family and friends can be too ' involved ' to offer help and advise that would be practical and or useful, or may even have an agenda of their own which means that the advice offered may not be the best, quite simply because it would compromise their own position or situation.
Fortunately, I have only found myself in this position twice, and on both occasions received helpful advice that could be used then, and also stored to pass on to othe Y.A. members who asked similar questions.
Mike t.
For a start it's easier to type out my feelings rather than trying to explain them.
As well it doesn't matter who sees your question or your feelings on the internet, no-one will ever know who you are so you can be honest and you don't have to be embarassed.
If things don't go how you expect in front of your friends and family it isn't something you just forget, you'll be reminded of it. And there's some things you just don't want people knowing about you, no matter who they are.
I always go to friends first for advice, the internet second, and family as a last resort.
Friends are obviously more supportive than the internet ever could be, but the internet has much more information and you can be anonymous.
I use the internet for topics that i feel too embarrassed to bring up with family or friends, or for advice i know they wont be able to give me!
When I don't want to name names.
If its an issue concerning someone I work with, for example, and I don't want one of my friends or colleagues to ask or try to guess who I'm refferring to, I will turn to a community site for advice so that I can just say ';I'm having concerns about someone I know'; and the people contributing don't have to judge or worry about who I'm talking about, they can just advise me based on their own experiences.
If I start it up with someone I know in person, then there's a chance it might backfire or erupt into an even more complicated issue, so I use sites like this to avoid unneccessary complications.
Sometimes asking family and friends can bring an answer that is biased. Because family members and friends know you, their answers may not be as honest as you would like. Posting your question on a site such as this gives you the opportunity of looking at a range of answers. But do be careful as some people have an axe to grind and sometimes an answer can be so hurtful.
i go to the net for all kinds of problems or questions! not so much for advice as such but it can be a good way to see how other people have dealt with certain situations, or give you a difference perspective to look at things. talking to your friends and family about your problems is good, but on the net you can search for how people who have been or are going through the same thing as you feel, or have dealt with things. Good Luck!
I am a private person, so when I have a marital problem, I never violate the sanctity of my marriage by talking about my problems with my family or friends. I never want my family or friends to ';dislike'; or lose respect for my husband based on what I may say in ';the heat of the moment';.....hurt and anger and frustration seem to make us over exaggerate a problem and then our friends and family choose sides that they should never have to choose.
And ';telling'; on my husband, is not allowing him to share his side of the issue.....and that is unfair and diesrespectful.
So it is easier to ask faceless strangers about a problem to obtain an objective answer or advice.
When i want to be unknown but most of the times,i look for help on the internet rather than my family and friends cause my family are always out and hardly ever see them.Friends because i dont trust people.I once do,however,the trust for everybody was broken when one of my friends shared my problems(secrets,rather) with everybody.
People on the net doesnt know you,they cant judge you.
As many people already mentioned, confiding in perfect strangers help you to get an objective solution. They are not personally involved in the situation and can therefore think straight - something that family and friends can't do because they know you.
There can be some judgemental characters on your internet sites but more often than not people are genuinely helpful.
I agree with the first answer, when you want to be anonymous. I was dealing with some stuff that I knew I couldn't share with my husband and I confided in one friend and she just blew it off and acted like I just needed to stop my behavior...she gave me no advice. I found myself, actually, at this site and just put it out there. I could say exactly what I was going through and what I was feeling. I got good honest answers from people that didn't know me. And it helped, it helped me alot. I feel alot better and am thankful that I had the internet as an outlet.
There are many reasons.
One could be that it is about them! Either in something they do or how they might react to something I did.
Other things might be on something that I know they will know nothing about, such as advice on a bit of homework.
And of course, the other reason is just to get the advice from an impartial source.
Because family tend to judge you and share your worries/secrets with whoever they live with which ain't fair. Some people tend to think they have to share everything with their partners even if it's about someone else which is wrong. Here people may judge you but you don't know each other and will never so they just judge once and forget about it and move on to the next question
xx
so you can choose to be anonymous.
so that you can get a better understanding of a situation that you might be being biased about so that you dont hurt someone you care about by not understanding.
so that other people who search online for something similar can use the answers to your questions to help them
theres soo many reasons...
when you don't want anyone to know who you are...
when you are too embarrassed to ask friends or family...
when friends and family don't understand or won't understand...
when you don't have friends or family to ask...
Its easier to talk to people on the internet coz they don't know you so they can't judge you...
some questions a person can't ask he/her parents about and so he/she can go to the internte for help, but what the person should remember that the people replying are just random people form all over the world and so before choosing the 'best' advice they should evaluate it first.
i always doo, its a lot easier talking to people you dont know , and a lot less awkward too. alsso, when it's something you'd be embarassed to tell people you know or even, you just want to find someone that understands what you're getting at
or you want a range of answers
etc. :]
When you want the opinion of someone who isn't biased, who doesn't know you so they don't mind 'hurting' your feelings, who take the time and explain, they dont know you so they cannot judge it from your character, and mostly because they give their honest opinion. When people who we know will just tell us what we want to hear.
That's why.
:) x
you might be embarressed or uncomfortable talking about your problem theres a certain anominity on the internet so people might be more comfortable talking about it plus online theres a chance a professional in whatever field reads your problem and helps you with it or someone whos had the same problem could read it and help
If it's a matter of a 'personal' nature, I'd much rather ask people on the internet anonymously, than face people I know. I'd rather not have the people I know judge me and think any worse of me by asking for such advice.
sometimes it is so good to scream at the computer screen when you don't get the answers you want. Or shut up suddenly because of the answers you do get. It doesn't matter what you ask someone somewhere will have an opinion. Maybe it is nice to be lonely but ...not alone.
Hey bud,
Anonymity, and for a totally unbiased view-point, also a view beyond those of people who may be involved directly or indirectly, or if I wanted as broader view as possible relative to a question.
thanks for your question and take care.
if this question is embarrassing and personal ,if its a question that can't be answered by family , friends . sometimes it helps speaking to somebody that u don't have a relationship with i think this way can really help
When it's about people i know. rumors spread pretty fast and i wouldn't want my friends and family getting the wrong idea about certain questions i have. Plus, people on here don't really judge all that much. We are all here for the same reason; we need help.
When you hear the same type of advice all the time, and you need someone else's input. Someone not from the inside, and not someone who already has your own personal opinions on the subject to influence their answer.
When you want someone's opinion who isn't involved in the situation, so that the advice is impartial. It can give you a different view point on the situation without upsetting or offending anyone.
easier you ask everybody that you don't know.
but i better ask for advices to the family, then you could find a solution for the problems.
I think you'd rathger ask strangerrs about certain things because it might alianate people you know.
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When might you go to the internet for advice rather than asking your friends or family?
Sometimes, you might find that the question you want an answer to,is a bit difficult to ask people you know directly; either because it's embarrassing, or because it sounds silly, although you want an answer to them, or because you think that being close to you, they won't dare being honest with you.
Also, on the internet, there are a wide range of opinions there; and surely, you'd feel safer to go with the majority, as the majority is usually right.
Internet gives you anonymity and although it can be pretty hurtful to be judged by people who don't know you, you feel less of an idiot for not being exposed to the ones who know you and can be horrible to you to your face.
I always go to the internet for advice because of the fact that I can't talk to other people about stuff. Its just not me. I hate how everyone seems to think that everyone else should be able to talk to people about stuff, because its like, some people just are not like that and its not fair to expect them to be. Other reasons are basically that its anonymous. The internet people don't know who you are, they know nothing about you and they can't already have judgements on you. They take the situation for what it is. This can also be a problem too though seen as they don't know what kind of person you are so they may not know what kind of advice to give you, but its normally not that way..
No one knows who you are here. Thats basically why I go here.
when its something that can be sorted whn you don;t want your family to know or when you feel that it will make it worse by telling family. For instance, self harm, a lot of people prefer to go to the interenet to get suppot and advice becasue they can get help from people who may have gone through tha same thing as they did. There is another reason, to get help fom people who may hvae gone through the same things as you. O maybe you don't feel you can trust your friends and family and do not feel that they will take your problems seriously.
Some ';SITES'; only offer help to people under 25 years of age...!
Some people don't want family to know their personal and private business. So seeking the advice of neutral parties on the internet would retain a certain element of dignity and anonymity.
Friends and family are more likely to give you ';advice'; based on their knowledge of you.. .they are inclined to give you the answers you might want to hear.
On sites like this one, our questions are met with varied responses based on ';hands on'; experience. We all know we aren't to take anyone's advice as the ';be all and end all'; effective remedy. .. in the end it's up to us to ascertain a feasible and logical approach to our dilemma's, based on the cumulative and diverse recommendations made by others.
I would do this if I was certain that non of my family friends or relatives knew the answer, or when I wanted a totally unbiased opinion on the question.
Sometimes family and friends can be too ' involved ' to offer help and advise that would be practical and or useful, or may even have an agenda of their own which means that the advice offered may not be the best, quite simply because it would compromise their own position or situation.
Fortunately, I have only found myself in this position twice, and on both occasions received helpful advice that could be used then, and also stored to pass on to othe Y.A. members who asked similar questions.
Mike t.
For a start it's easier to type out my feelings rather than trying to explain them.
As well it doesn't matter who sees your question or your feelings on the internet, no-one will ever know who you are so you can be honest and you don't have to be embarassed.
If things don't go how you expect in front of your friends and family it isn't something you just forget, you'll be reminded of it. And there's some things you just don't want people knowing about you, no matter who they are.
I always go to friends first for advice, the internet second, and family as a last resort.
Friends are obviously more supportive than the internet ever could be, but the internet has much more information and you can be anonymous.
I use the internet for topics that i feel too embarrassed to bring up with family or friends, or for advice i know they wont be able to give me!
When I don't want to name names.
If its an issue concerning someone I work with, for example, and I don't want one of my friends or colleagues to ask or try to guess who I'm refferring to, I will turn to a community site for advice so that I can just say ';I'm having concerns about someone I know'; and the people contributing don't have to judge or worry about who I'm talking about, they can just advise me based on their own experiences.
If I start it up with someone I know in person, then there's a chance it might backfire or erupt into an even more complicated issue, so I use sites like this to avoid unneccessary complications.
Sometimes asking family and friends can bring an answer that is biased. Because family members and friends know you, their answers may not be as honest as you would like. Posting your question on a site such as this gives you the opportunity of looking at a range of answers. But do be careful as some people have an axe to grind and sometimes an answer can be so hurtful.
i go to the net for all kinds of problems or questions! not so much for advice as such but it can be a good way to see how other people have dealt with certain situations, or give you a difference perspective to look at things. talking to your friends and family about your problems is good, but on the net you can search for how people who have been or are going through the same thing as you feel, or have dealt with things. Good Luck!
I am a private person, so when I have a marital problem, I never violate the sanctity of my marriage by talking about my problems with my family or friends. I never want my family or friends to ';dislike'; or lose respect for my husband based on what I may say in ';the heat of the moment';.....hurt and anger and frustration seem to make us over exaggerate a problem and then our friends and family choose sides that they should never have to choose.
And ';telling'; on my husband, is not allowing him to share his side of the issue.....and that is unfair and diesrespectful.
So it is easier to ask faceless strangers about a problem to obtain an objective answer or advice.
When i want to be unknown but most of the times,i look for help on the internet rather than my family and friends cause my family are always out and hardly ever see them.Friends because i dont trust people.I once do,however,the trust for everybody was broken when one of my friends shared my problems(secrets,rather) with everybody.
People on the net doesnt know you,they cant judge you.
As many people already mentioned, confiding in perfect strangers help you to get an objective solution. They are not personally involved in the situation and can therefore think straight - something that family and friends can't do because they know you.
There can be some judgemental characters on your internet sites but more often than not people are genuinely helpful.
I agree with the first answer, when you want to be anonymous. I was dealing with some stuff that I knew I couldn't share with my husband and I confided in one friend and she just blew it off and acted like I just needed to stop my behavior...she gave me no advice. I found myself, actually, at this site and just put it out there. I could say exactly what I was going through and what I was feeling. I got good honest answers from people that didn't know me. And it helped, it helped me alot. I feel alot better and am thankful that I had the internet as an outlet.
There are many reasons.
One could be that it is about them! Either in something they do or how they might react to something I did.
Other things might be on something that I know they will know nothing about, such as advice on a bit of homework.
And of course, the other reason is just to get the advice from an impartial source.
Because family tend to judge you and share your worries/secrets with whoever they live with which ain't fair. Some people tend to think they have to share everything with their partners even if it's about someone else which is wrong. Here people may judge you but you don't know each other and will never so they just judge once and forget about it and move on to the next question
xx
so you can choose to be anonymous.
so that you can get a better understanding of a situation that you might be being biased about so that you dont hurt someone you care about by not understanding.
so that other people who search online for something similar can use the answers to your questions to help them
theres soo many reasons...
when you don't want anyone to know who you are...
when you are too embarrassed to ask friends or family...
when friends and family don't understand or won't understand...
when you don't have friends or family to ask...
Its easier to talk to people on the internet coz they don't know you so they can't judge you...
some questions a person can't ask he/her parents about and so he/she can go to the internte for help, but what the person should remember that the people replying are just random people form all over the world and so before choosing the 'best' advice they should evaluate it first.
i always doo, its a lot easier talking to people you dont know , and a lot less awkward too. alsso, when it's something you'd be embarassed to tell people you know or even, you just want to find someone that understands what you're getting at
or you want a range of answers
etc. :]
When you want the opinion of someone who isn't biased, who doesn't know you so they don't mind 'hurting' your feelings, who take the time and explain, they dont know you so they cannot judge it from your character, and mostly because they give their honest opinion. When people who we know will just tell us what we want to hear.
That's why.
:) x
you might be embarressed or uncomfortable talking about your problem theres a certain anominity on the internet so people might be more comfortable talking about it plus online theres a chance a professional in whatever field reads your problem and helps you with it or someone whos had the same problem could read it and help
If it's a matter of a 'personal' nature, I'd much rather ask people on the internet anonymously, than face people I know. I'd rather not have the people I know judge me and think any worse of me by asking for such advice.
sometimes it is so good to scream at the computer screen when you don't get the answers you want. Or shut up suddenly because of the answers you do get. It doesn't matter what you ask someone somewhere will have an opinion. Maybe it is nice to be lonely but ...not alone.
Hey bud,
Anonymity, and for a totally unbiased view-point, also a view beyond those of people who may be involved directly or indirectly, or if I wanted as broader view as possible relative to a question.
thanks for your question and take care.
if this question is embarrassing and personal ,if its a question that can't be answered by family , friends . sometimes it helps speaking to somebody that u don't have a relationship with i think this way can really help
When it's about people i know. rumors spread pretty fast and i wouldn't want my friends and family getting the wrong idea about certain questions i have. Plus, people on here don't really judge all that much. We are all here for the same reason; we need help.
When you hear the same type of advice all the time, and you need someone else's input. Someone not from the inside, and not someone who already has your own personal opinions on the subject to influence their answer.
When you want someone's opinion who isn't involved in the situation, so that the advice is impartial. It can give you a different view point on the situation without upsetting or offending anyone.
easier you ask everybody that you don't know.
but i better ask for advices to the family, then you could find a solution for the problems.
Do you noe of a good, free veterinarian advice website?
my bunny is sick and i dont exactly have the money to take her in, but if its serious i will. and i wanted to noe of site/s that i can tell about her situation and get help on what i should do. like an online vet but for free cause many you have to pay for. plzz and thank you.Do you noe of a good, free veterinarian advice website?
Lots of sites online will give you free advice on what COULD be wrong, but only a real life vet examining your rabbit in real life can tell you what IS wrong and give you prescriptions and information on how to help- take her to a damn vet. A rabbit is the same finanical commitment as a dog or cat- just because they live in a cage doesn't mean they deserve to be left sick and in discomfort. If you can't afford it, give it to a shelter.homemade mask
Lots of sites online will give you free advice on what COULD be wrong, but only a real life vet examining your rabbit in real life can tell you what IS wrong and give you prescriptions and information on how to help- take her to a damn vet. A rabbit is the same finanical commitment as a dog or cat- just because they live in a cage doesn't mean they deserve to be left sick and in discomfort. If you can't afford it, give it to a shelter.
What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
Grow!
I'm somewhat hard headed at times that's why..
Tend to be childish even if ma' bubsies are two grown up monks alre'dy.
Great day!
Brilliant sunny Sat. out here in the city of Kobe (in autumn)!What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
Don't be afraid to fail, if you are afraid, you will never try. If you never try you won't ever succeed. Thank you.What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
As hard as it may be at first, Do what you love, and you will end up loving what you do.
Do your efforts sincerely without expecting results.Result will be taken care of by God in your best interest.
Hindsight is 20/20
1. ';Do you';
2. ';Live for yourself, no one else';
3. ';You only live once';
you can't trust anyone, but yourself
An old professor of mine once said to us....';You''ll never learn ANYTHING while YOU are talking!'; I've found that to be true.
Life sucks, get used to it
While it sounds crude it is real and true
To be a successful business man and make a profit, MIND YOUR OWN?
';A Life in fear is a half lived life';
Ian Roberts xoxo
William Shakespeare ';To thine own self be true.';
If you're wrong... apologise...
If you're right... shut up..
Cheers!!!!
advice is all stupid and blind
I'm somewhat hard headed at times that's why..
Tend to be childish even if ma' bubsies are two grown up monks alre'dy.
Great day!
Brilliant sunny Sat. out here in the city of Kobe (in autumn)!What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
Don't be afraid to fail, if you are afraid, you will never try. If you never try you won't ever succeed. Thank you.What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
As hard as it may be at first, Do what you love, and you will end up loving what you do.
Do your efforts sincerely without expecting results.Result will be taken care of by God in your best interest.
Hindsight is 20/20
1. ';Do you';
2. ';Live for yourself, no one else';
3. ';You only live once';
you can't trust anyone, but yourself
An old professor of mine once said to us....';You''ll never learn ANYTHING while YOU are talking!'; I've found that to be true.
Life sucks, get used to it
While it sounds crude it is real and true
To be a successful business man and make a profit, MIND YOUR OWN?
';A Life in fear is a half lived life';
Ian Roberts xoxo
William Shakespeare ';To thine own self be true.';
If you're wrong... apologise...
If you're right... shut up..
Cheers!!!!
advice is all stupid and blind
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